Disciplinary council for the founder of the Ordain Women movement in the LDS church

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I am really curious as to what will happen with Dehlin next week. I think he has a better chance to not get exed. If the LDS church does not ex Dehlin, the unequal treatment will be blatant.
I agree, especially since they postponed his in order to “deescalate” the situation.

I’m sure they were wanting to wait and see what kind of backlash they would encounter with this one.

All I can say is, they need to find new PR people, or pay the ones they have a heck of alot more than what they’re getting paid, 'cause it ain’t gonna be pretty.
 
I have only vaguely followed this matter. I’m not familiar with the proceedings and how things may or may not have been done in an appropriate manner, or may or may not have followed the rules set forth by the LDS church itself (again, I don’t know since I haven’t really followed it in depth).

However, I do think it is important to remember that as Catholics, we affirm the true teaching, even dogma, that only men are able to be ordained to the priesthood. Various Popes throughout Catholic history have affirmed this. While Mormonism’s situation on the matter is more nuanced, especially since it has women performing ordinances for other women in the temple, and has a history of women performing healing/anointing blessings, among other things, Ms. Kelly, from what I have seen so far, does seem to be affirming and teaching things contrary to current Mormon teaching and practice, as well as what Catholics would see as the historical and true Christian practice on priesthood ordination. Having looked at the Ordain Women’s website, it seems as if this organization actively and explicitly advocates for the ordination of women to the priesthood. They say that it is “necessary”, and strongly criticize the practice of having a male-only priesthood.

Perhaps I’m rambling, but my point is that, while perhaps the situation is a little more complicated if we judge Mormonism on its own (and that perhaps there is a cause for LDS women to be ordained to the priesthood based on Mormonism’s own teachings, history, practices, etc), and maybe the LDS church did wrong things in approaching this (again, I don’t know, I haven’t looked into it too much), we must not forget that as Catholics, we know that the dogma of the true Church is that women cannot be validly ordained to the priesthood (as our own “ordain women”-esque Women Priests groups have attempted to do), and that to me, it does seem as if her support (founding?) of a group openly teaching ideas contrary to the current LDS church practices (clearly making the belief in a male priesthood out to be false, antiquated, etc), inviting others to join in support of it, and presenting “discussions” to disseminate to others to “faithfully agitate” for change in the LDS church would be cause for some sort of discipline (as opposed to merely discussing the historical and theological matter). This also reminds me of the temple recommend question, “Do you support, affiliate with, or agree with any group or individual whose teachings or practices are contrary to or oppose those accepted by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints?” To me, this is a pretty clear example of that. 🤷

My two cents.
 
Link to the excommunication letter:

deseretnews.com/media/pdf/1365030.pdf

Also, yes, while I do hope that she will come to see that the LDS church is not what it claims to be (the restoration of the true Church of Jesus Christ), I also hope that she will come to see that the belief that women are to be ordained to the priesthood is also false (as taught by the actual Church of Jesus Christ, the Catholic Church), since that would be a matter she naturally would have to consider if ever she considering come to the Catholic Church.
 
I have only vaguely followed this matter. I’m not familiar with the proceedings and how things may or may not have been done in an appropriate manner, or may or may not have followed the rules set forth by the LDS church itself (again, I don’t know since I haven’t really followed it in depth).

However, I do think it is important to remember that as Catholics, we affirm the true teaching, even dogma, that only men are able to be ordained to the priesthood. Various Popes throughout Catholic history have affirmed this. While Mormonism’s situation on the matter is more nuanced, especially since it has women performing ordinances for other women in the temple, and has a history of women performing healing/anointing blessings, among other things, Ms. Kelly, from what I have seen so far, does seem to be affirming and teaching things contrary to current Mormon teaching and practice, as well as what Catholics would see as the historical and true Christian practice on priesthood ordination. Having looked at the Ordain Women’s website, it seems as if this organization actively and explicitly advocates for the ordination of women to the priesthood. They say that it is “necessary”, and strongly criticize the practice of having a male-only priesthood.

Perhaps I’m rambling, but my point is that, while perhaps the situation is a little more complicated if we judge Mormonism on its own (and that perhaps there is a cause for LDS women to be ordained to the priesthood based on Mormonism’s own teachings, history, practices, etc), and maybe the LDS church did wrong things in approaching this (again, I don’t know, I haven’t looked into it too much), we must not forget that as Catholics, we know that the dogma of the true Church is that women cannot be validly ordained to the priesthood (as our own “ordain women”-esque Women Priests groups have attempted to do), and that to me, it does seem as if her support (founding?) of a group openly teaching ideas contrary to the current LDS church practices (clearly making the belief in a male priesthood out to be false, antiquated, etc), inviting others to join in support of it, and presenting “discussions” to disseminate to others to “faithfully agitate” for change in the LDS church would be cause for some sort of discipline (as opposed to merely discussing the historical and theological matter). This also reminds me of the temple recommend question, “Do you support, affiliate with, or agree with any group or individual whose teachings or practices are contrary to or oppose those accepted by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints?” To me, this is a pretty clear example of that. 🤷

My two cents.
Male only priesthood was something I looked at very carefully when I was in RCIA. It makes sense within our Catholic understanding of in persona Christi. LDS don’t have this understanding about their own priesthood.

I was also thinking more recently, that “priestess” has pagan connotations, something that must be approached we extreme caution. My own opinion is, that Mormonism is a paganized version of Christianity anyway. Mainly the plurality of Gods doctrine, but other more subtle things, like a fertility goddess sort of view of women.

I don’t really see a reason for the Mormon church to not ordain women…in a Mormon context.

My :twocents:
 
I have only vaguely followed this matter. I’m not familiar with the proceedings and how things may or may not have been done in an appropriate manner, or may or may not have followed the rules set forth by the LDS church itself (again, I don’t know since I haven’t really followed it in depth).

However, I do think it is important to remember that as Catholics, we affirm the true teaching, even dogma, that only men are able to be ordained to the priesthood. Various Popes throughout Catholic history have affirmed this. While Mormonism’s situation on the matter is more nuanced, especially since it has women performing ordinances for other women in the temple, and has a history of women performing healing/anointing blessings, among other things, Ms. Kelly, from what I have seen so far, does seem to be affirming and teaching things contrary to current Mormon teaching and practice, as well as what Catholics would see as the historical and true Christian practice on priesthood ordination. Having looked at the Ordain Women’s website, it seems as if this organization actively and explicitly advocates for the ordination of women to the priesthood. They say that it is “necessary”, and strongly criticize the practice of having a male-only priesthood.

Perhaps I’m rambling, but my point is that, while perhaps the situation is a little more complicated if we judge Mormonism on its own (and that perhaps there is a cause for LDS women to be ordained to the priesthood based on Mormonism’s own teachings, history, practices, etc), and maybe the LDS church did wrong things in approaching this (again, I don’t know, I haven’t looked into it too much), we must not forget that as Catholics, we know that the dogma of the true Church is that women cannot be validly ordained to the priesthood (as our own “ordain women”-esque Women Priests groups have attempted to do), and that to me, it does seem as if her support (founding?) of a group openly teaching ideas contrary to the current LDS church practices (clearly making the belief in a male priesthood out to be false, antiquated, etc), inviting others to join in support of it, and presenting “discussions” to disseminate to others to “faithfully agitate” for change in the LDS church would be cause for some sort of discipline (as opposed to merely discussing the historical and theological matter). This also reminds me of the temple recommend question, “Do you support, affiliate with, or agree with any group or individual whose teachings or practices are contrary to or oppose those accepted by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints?” To me, this is a pretty clear example of that. 🤷

My two cents.
Within a Mormon context, it is appropriate to ask the question regarding the ordination of women. LDS history and doctrine are, in many ways, supportive of women ordination, even if the “priestesshood” does not have the same responsibilities as the priesthood. In the temple, women are washed and anointed to become queens and priestesses to their husbands, so it does fit into LDS theology. I think one of the problems with the OW movement is that they basically want the same priesthood as the men. It simply would never work that way in a Mormon context.

The reality is that the LDS church does ordain certain women as priestesses in the second anointing ordinance. The problem is that this ordination is very selective and very few Mormons even know about it. The LDS church could ordain women as priestesses with certain powers and responsibilities such as healing, blessing babies and children and running their own organizations without needing the men to approve all of their decisions and it would fit quite nicely in their theology and make a lot of women happy. It would also be nice for mothers not be under the priesthood authority of their twelve year old sons if dad is out of town. I didn’t even know that early Mormon women performed healing blessings until a couple of years ago. This knowledge got me questioning and thinking and caused me to research the history of the LDS church. I wanted to know why the power of women to bless was taken away. Well, I found out a lot more and ended up leaving.

I agree with Rebecca that Mormonism is paganized Christianity and the ordination of women is appropriate only within a Mormon context.

The Catholic theology of in persona Christi makes sense and it precludes women from the priesthood since Christ is the Bridegroom and the Church is His Bride. I am a feminist of sorts and have zero problems with a male only priesthood given the teachings of the Catholic Church on the matter. In the Catholic Church, I am not dependent on my husband for my salvation. I rely only on Christ, just like my husband and sons. We truly are equal before God.

The LDS church follows a false prophet and I would love for all Mormons to figure it out and leave. Unfortunately I have sisters and nieces who are LDS, and I don’t see any of them leaving anytime soon. If Kate Kelly and other women in the OW movement can make the LDS church a better place for women and less abusive to them, I will support them.
 
I had no idea about the Skype part!! That is rotten.

I do feel sorry for her and her family though. She wasn’t questioning things to lead her out, she was questioning things in order to keep her in. Their answer was, “There’s the door…” Shameful really.
I thought pulling her parents temple recommends was particularly egregious, why punish other faithful members simply because they love their child unconditionally. Truly despicable.
 
I am really curious as to what will happen with Dehlin next week. I think he has a better chance to not get exed. If the LDS church does not ex Dehlin, the unequal treatment will be blatant.
I think John won’t be ex’d, he’s a misguided man not an uppity woman. The LDS church teaches up front and drums it in subtly that a woman’s place is at home with no public voice, a St. Catherine is an impossibility in the LDS church. Kelly’s exing was a given the moment she was notified. Dehlin is a different story, the church has already made noise about “de-escalating” in his case.
 
I think John won’t be ex’d, he’s a misguided man not an uppity woman. The LDS church teaches up front and drums it in subtly that a woman’s place is at home with no public voice, a St. Catherine is an impossibility in the LDS church. Kelly’s exing was a given the moment she was notified. Dehlin is a different story, the church has already made noise about “de-escalating” in his case.
We’ve seen this movie before. Kate Kelly is the modern Sonja Johnson.
 
I thought pulling her parents temple recommends was particularly egregious, why punish other faithful members simply because they love their child unconditionally. Truly despicable.
Yup. Very trashy. She is very lucky to have parents who love her unconditionally. Many ex-Mormons do not have that luxury.
 
Mormons have never ordained women to the priesthood. If this woman had simply asked that women be allowed to give healing blessings and other blessings based on faith rather than the priesthood she would probably not have had a problem. She insisted that women should be ordained as priesthood members. That’s never been something Mormonism has practiced. I don’t know why there is any sympathy for her from Catholic women who are in a church that doesn’t ordain women priests. Is our disbelief in the LDS Church clouding our understanding of what this woman was trying to accomplish? She was actively promoting something which the LDS Church cannot do based on its historic understanding of the priesthood. I have very little sympathy for her.
 
at first, I had real problems with Catholics taking any position in this discussion as Catholics also have a male-only priesthood and have ex’d women who try to hold it.

Then I took a step back and looked at the organizations in the larger picture.

I see no evidence that the male-only in Catholic Church was ever used as a method to subjugate women.

That is not true for the LDS Church.

In the LDS Church, it is just further evidence of the way women are treated as second class citizens.
  1. Women, when I attended LDS Temple, were REQUIRED to vow to obey husbnads, Husbands vowed to obey God.
  2. Men could have several wives, but women could not have several husbands.
  3. I heaven, men can still have several wives, women cannot have several husbands
  4. When I was a missionary, men could go at age 19, women not till 21 because it was hoped they would be married and having kids instead…
  5. In the temple, men bring their wives thru the veil, women never bring their husbands…if no husband, women STILL need a man to pull them thru the veil…
etc.

So, maybe the LDS women DO have a point.,…
 
at first, I had real problems with Catholics taking any position in this discussion as Catholics also have a male-only priesthood and have ex’d women who try to hold it.

Then I took a step back and looked at the organizations in the larger picture.

I see no evidence that the male-only in Catholic Church was ever used as a method to subjugate women.

That is not true for the LDS Church.

In the LDS Church, it is just further evidence of the way women are treated as second class citizens.
  1. Women, when I attended LDS Temple, were REQUIRED to vow to obey husbnads, Husbands vowed to obey God.
  2. Men could have several wives, but women could not have several husbands.
  3. I heaven, men can still have several wives, women cannot have several husbands
  4. When I was a missionary, men could go at age 19, women not till 21 because it was hoped they would be married and having kids instead…
  5. In the temple, men bring their wives thru the veil, women never bring their husbands…if no husband, women STILL need a man to pull them thru the veil…
etc.

So, maybe the LDS women DO have a point.,…
The LDS women don’t have any point. I don’t see any of the above as subjugation. From what I understand Kate Kelly never took a vow to obey her husband in the temple since that has been removed. Even if it wasn’t removed, the duty of the wife to obey the husband is just good New Testament doctrine. In LDS doctrine a husband can’t get to the highest degree of the Celestial Kingdom without a wife to pull through the veil. There would be obvious problems with a woman having more than one husband – how would you establish paternity in such a marriage? The idea the modern LDS Church is subjugating women is laughable. Honestly, there is no more subjugation of women in the modern LDS Church than there is in the Catholic Church. There are many church denominations which don’t allow women to have priesthood or ministerial duties. The Lutheran Church-Missouri Synod, Eastern Orthodox Churches, and Southern Baptist churches are just the ones that come to mind immediately. LDS women regularly speak and give prayers in LDS sacrament meetings every Sunday. That is more than they can do in the above churches.
 
Mormons have never ordained women to the priesthood. If this woman had simply asked that women be allowed to give healing blessings and other blessings based on faith rather than the priesthood she would probably not have had a problem. She insisted that women should be ordained as priesthood members. That’s never been something Mormonism has practiced. I don’t know why there is any sympathy for her from Catholic women who are in a church that doesn’t ordain women priests. Is our disbelief in the LDS Church clouding our understanding of what this woman was trying to accomplish? She was actively promoting something which the LDS Church cannot do based on its historic understanding of the priesthood. I have very little sympathy for her.
I think if Mormon women started giving blessings, healing or otherwise, to their children and openly talked about it, they would get in trouble. I know of at least one woman who requested to stand in the circle to hold her new baby during its blessing. The father was going to pronounce the blessing. She just wanted to hold the baby. She and her husband were shut down by the bishop and they were forbidden to bless the baby at home which was their original intention so they could have other family members attend via Skype. The bishop made a huge stink about it and released the mother from her calling over it.

It Kate Kelly limited her movement to women simply giving blessings like in the past, I would have expected her to still be excommunicated.
 
The LDS women don’t have any point. I don’t see any of the above as subjugation. From what I understand Kate Kelly never took a vow to obey her husband in the temple since that has been removed. Even if it wasn’t removed, the duty of the wife to obey the husband is just good New Testament doctrine. In LDS doctrine a husband can’t get to the highest degree of the Celestial Kingdom without a wife to pull through the veil. There would be obvious problems with a woman having more than one husband – how would you establish paternity in such a marriage? The idea the modern LDS Church is subjugating women is laughable. Honestly, there is no more subjugation of women in the modern LDS Church than there is in the Catholic Church. There are many church denominations which don’t allow women to have priesthood or ministerial duties. The Lutheran Church-Missouri Synod, Eastern Orthodox Churches, and Southern Baptist churches are just the ones that come to mind immediately. LDS women regularly speak and give prayers in LDS sacrament meetings every Sunday. That is more than they can do in the above churches.
We can agree to disagree. I find the above VERY demeaning to women…as did my ex-wife when she was LDS…as does my ex-sister-in-law who IS still LDS…I suspect I would rely a female’s opinion on this topic than a males…but that is just me.

The Baptist and Lutheran Churches do not require men to pull wives into heaven.

And I am not sure how you do not see in the inequality of men having as many women as they want but women only being able to have one man…

And my point was not about Kelly specifically. The fact that the lds church, under pressure, changed outward manifestations of subjugation by changing the temple wording does not mean the inward does not still exist.
 
The LDS women don’t have any point. I don’t see any of the above as subjugation. From what I understand Kate Kelly never took a vow to obey her husband in the temple since that has been removed. Even if it wasn’t removed, the duty of the wife to obey the husband is just good New Testament doctrine. In LDS doctrine a husband can’t get to the highest degree of the Celestial Kingdom without a wife to pull through the veil. There would be obvious problems with a woman having more than one husband – how would you establish paternity in such a marriage? The idea the modern LDS Church is subjugating women is laughable. Honestly, there is no more subjugation of women in the modern LDS Church than there is in the Catholic Church. There are many church denominations which don’t allow women to have priesthood or ministerial duties. The Lutheran Church-Missouri Synod, Eastern Orthodox Churches, and Southern Baptist churches are just the ones that come to mind immediately. LDS women regularly speak and give prayers in LDS sacrament meetings every Sunday. That is more than they can do in the above churches.
I agree with Texan and find this post to be demeaning to women and belittling their experiences in the LDS church. Here is a link to a post in another thread that gives more details on my experience of being a woman in the LDS church. I hope it helps you to better understand the plight of women in the LDS church, especially unmarried women.

forums.catholic-questions.org/showpost.php?p=12114200&postcount=17

The temple endowment changed the wording from obey to hearken. From my perspective, hearken pretty much means obey. In the temple, I understood that I had to obey my husband. It just doesn’t sound as bad when one says the word hearken. Merriam-Webster defines “hearken” as to listen, the give respectful attention, and to give heed.

Honestly, I don’t understand how you cannot see that polygamy is inherently unequal. Men and women are treated differently in marriage simply because of their sex. Isn’t it also problematic for a man to have plural wives? What about him showing favoritism to one over the others? How is he true to a woman if he has additional wives?

In the temple sealing, the vows are different based on sex. The woman receives the man as her husband and gives herself to him. The man receives the woman as his wife. He never promises to give himself to her. Do you see the inherent inequality there?

When my husband and I were married in the Catholic Church, our vows were identical. We both promised to be true to each other in good times and bad, in sickness and in health and to love and honor each other. There is no love and honor promised between a man and a woman in the LDS temple sealing. A Christian marriage is an equal partnership.

In the LDS church, a woman can only get to the celestial kingdom through a husband. She cannot get there on her own simply because she is a woman. In the temple, a woman is washed and anointed to become a queen and priestess to her husband. A man is washed and anointed to become a king and priest unto God. Do you see the difference?

It is also good New Testament doctrine for the husband to love his wife as Christ loved the Church. As you know Mormons don’t really pay attention to good NT doctrine if it is inconvenient for them.

There is nothing in LDS doctrine that says women cannot be ordained to the priesthood. Even the LDS church’s spokeswoman admitted as much during one of the press conferences last week. Orthodox Christianity has outlined a theology and I find it to be reasonable. Sorry, but even as a Catholic, God said so isn’t good enough for me. I can ask why. The LDS church can only say that women cannot be ordained because their god says so.

Maybe it is just my experience, but in the LDS church, the priesthood was always referred to as power and authority. In my experience with orthodox Christianity, I have never heard the priesthood referred to as power and authority.
 
There is nothing in LDS doctrine that says women cannot be ordained to the priesthood. Even the LDS church’s spokeswoman admitted as much during one of the press conferences last week. Orthodox Christianity has outlined a theology and I find it to be reasonable. Sorry, but even as a Catholic, God said so isn’t good enough for me. I can ask why. The LDS church can only say that women cannot be ordained because their god says so.
Well if your god says so, I guess I would call that doctrine. Our Catholic God, Jesus, apparently did not see fit to call women to the priesthood. That seems to be good enough for Catholics. There is no example in any Mormon scripture of a woman holding the priesthood. The only reason we Catholics seem to think a woman can’t hold the priesthood is because Jesus was a man. That’s good enough for me, but I’m surprised it’s good enough for you. Here is what the LDS web site says about it:

mormon.org/faq/women-in-the-church
 
Well if your god says so, I guess I would call that doctrine. Our Catholic God, Jesus, apparently did not see fit to call women to the priesthood. That seems to be good enough for Catholics. There is no example in any Mormon scripture of a woman holding the priesthood. The only reason we Catholics seem to think a woman can’t hold the priesthood is because Jesus was a man. That’s good enough for me, but I’m surprised it’s good enough for you. Here is what the LDS web site says about it:

mormon.org/faq/women-in-the-church
If the priesthood issue was the ONLY issue involving demeaning women, I would be in total agreement with you, and likely would not posted on this thread. But for the reasons I listed, and others I did not, I believe it is a pattern of considering women lesser beings.
 
If the priesthood issue was the ONLY issue involving demeaning women, I would be in total agreement with you, and likely would not posted on this thread. But for the reasons I listed, and others I did not, I believe it is a pattern of considering women lesser beings.
I think the biggest problem we may have in the future is some court deciding that not giving women the priesthood is somehow discriminatory and a reason to get rid of tax exempt status for a religion. In that case both the Catholic Church and the LDS Church would be in the same boat so I don’t think it is very wise to be supportive of a group in any church that is demanding so-called equal rights with regards to the priesthood. It is the same thing with gay marriage. We don’t know if a future U.S. court won’t go the Danish route and require churches to perform gay marriages. There will be future Kate Kellys who will try to demand the government uphold their rights as women for equality. It is a slippery slope, and I hate to even be seen as sympathetic to any woman in any church demanding priesthood based on the idea of equal rights.
 
I thought** pulling her parents temple recommends was particularly egregious**, why punish other faithful members simply because they love their child unconditionally. Truly despicable.
WTF???

Sheeezeeeee…LDS inc is so desperate for control its almost comical…almost…
 
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