Discouraged: Want a Baby but Insurance Doesn't Cover Maternity

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Come to think of it, maybe you should talk to your OB/GYN and ask his or her opinion on how big a risk you’d be taking with regard to fertility by waiting different lengths of time (3 months/6 months/9 months/18 months/whatever)? They may have some opinions and/or hard facts.

You’ve got two different timelines going–on the one hand, your financial situation will hopefully be getting better and better with time–but on the other hand, the fertility situation will be getting worse and worse. Theoretically, it would be possible (if you had to) to pay the whole $13k in cash–if you could just have the baby at that point. But even managing half of that would cut the thing down to size…
This is really good advice (to ask an OB about risk of waiting by month or year). I did this myself, and the discussion we had really helped me a lot. It is so hard when you have these competing issues, and are trying to be responsible financially but desire to start a family. A conversation like that can help to put things in perspective, either by helping you to make a decision to try to have a baby sooner rather than later, or reassuring you about being able to wait a bit longer.
 
This is really good advice (to ask an OB about risk of waiting by month or year). I did this myself, and the discussion we had really helped me a lot. It is so hard when you have these competing issues, and are trying to be responsible financially but desire to start a family. A conversation like that can help to put things in perspective, either by helping you to make a decision to try to have a baby sooner rather than later, or reassuring you about being able to wait a bit longer.
Yeah–my last pregnancy I asked my doctor beforehand and she basically told me NOW.

Which we did. (I was 36 at the time of the conversation and had the baby at 37.)
 
You have my sympathy! I have had quite a few headaches with insurance and maternity care!
With our first, maternity wasn’t covered and so I was very worried at first (we didn’t have a job either when we found out we were pregnant!) but we worked out a pre-payment plan with the hospital and the dr (ended up being similar or less than what I have paid for other babies with insurance).

Another issue I had with two other babies was that we traveled with dh for work, so we would be several months in a rented home away from home. Well, I was pregnant with one of my kids and we were going to be gone for several months, but back home sometime before my due date. I couldn’t find any OB Gyn willing to take me. One even told me flat out the legal risk was too high for them (they wouldn’t be there for delivery, but were liable because they had been involved in prenatal care). The dept of health (here and there) said they couldn’t help. I finally found this old school, older OB (bow tie and all) that was kind enough to take me. The only one. When I went back to my regular home I still had to pay my original OB the full fee as if I had been there the whole time.
I did have that situation again in a different place and once again had to pay full cost even if I had paid for prenatal care elsewhere for half the pregnancy. The global fee I pay with my regular OB includes 1 ultrasound, but I was in the second location when it was time for the ultrasound, so I paid for it separately. When I got back home, my dr. had me have an ultrasound as well. I figured it would be part of the global fee since they include 1 in their fee, but no, the insurance forced them to charge me for it. They told me they would have expected for it to be the one ultrasound in their fee, but the insurance requires that they file everything and the insurance said I owed money for that ultrasound. Ugh, I wasn’t happy, but I ended up paying it (it wasn’t too expensive after all, but the principle of it upset me… the one ultrasound I had paid for in the global fee went unused, and I had to pay for two other ones separately)…

A different time my employers insurance changed while pregnant. I went from in network to out of network the last month of my pregnancy. It was very stressful because they could not guarantee that I wouldn’t end up paying out of network (very high) rates for my whole pregnancy or at least for my delivery (which is the major cost). It ended up working out (we never figured out if my OB turned out to be in network, or if they gave us a special permission, but they counted it as in-network).

Now… everything has worked out one way or another. We have been blessed with 7 sweet kiddos out of all of this. I think most of them wouldn’t be here if we would have waited for the perfect time, or the best situation. That being said, November is just around the corner 🙂 Even if you were to get pregnant soon, are you expecting to have thousands of dollars of treatment done in the first 1-2.5 months of prenatal care, or just concerned about the possibility? Have you consulted anyone to see what happens if you are pregnant and switch insurance in the first few months?
 
Just for fun I will enter the debate and then hide under the table to wait for the abuse !!

Just to point out that in the UK and pretty much the whole of Europe this isn’t an issue because healthcare is free (yes I know - sorry state funded). How can it be that in the richest nation on earth women have to worry about maternity care !
 
Just for fun I will enter the debate and then hide under the table to wait for the abuse !!

Just to point out that in the UK and pretty much the whole of Europe this isn’t an issue because healthcare is free (yes I know - sorry state funded). How can it be that in the richest nation on earth women have to worry about maternity care !
And yet, amazingly, the UK TFR is 1.9 whereas the US TFR is 1.88…

Some more numbers:

Germany 1.38
Italy 1.4
Spain 1.32
Portugal 1.28
France 2.01
Sweden 1.91
Norway 1.85
 
There may be many reasons why the birth rate in the UK and the rest of Europe is relatively low. Many far from Godly. But fear of medical expenses is not one of them.
 
There may be many reasons why the birth rate in the UK and the rest of Europe is relatively low. Many far from Godly. But fear of medical expenses is not one of them.
The similarity in birth rates does suggest that it’s six of the one, half a dozen of the other.
 
There may be many reasons why the birth rate in the UK and the rest of Europe is relatively low. Many far from Godly. But fear of medical expenses is not one of them.
Sadly, I know quite of few people in the UK who are terribly unhappy with your NHS. They may not fear medical expenses, but sure do fear quality of care. I doubt the Royals have the same kind of insurance plan, just as I think our government officials in Washington DC feel our pain.
 
Most of the people having the most babies in any country are not worried about health insurance or medical bills.
 
Sadly, I know quite of few people in the UK who are terribly unhappy with your NHS. They may not fear medical expenses, but sure do fear quality of care. I doubt the Royals have the same kind of insurance plan, just as I think our government officials in Washington DC feel our pain.
True and the same here in Ireland where we have a two tier system. But then when things are free folk tend to complain more, Do you have stats on this? And re quality of care comparisons ?
 
There may be many reasons why the birth rate in the UK and the rest of Europe is relatively low. Many far from Godly. But fear of medical expenses is not one of them.
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And can we link this to the easy availabitlty of abortions also free on the NHS of course.
 
Have you looked into a health-sharing co-op like Samaritan Ministries? My husband and I dropped our insurance and switched to Samaritan a while back. You cover the first $300 of a need; and then members cover the rest. This includes maternity needs. (They don’t cover most pre-existing conditions, so it may not be for everyone, but it is worth looking into.)

My friend who originally recommended Samaritan to us recently had a baby, and it ended up costing her next to nothing; all her maternity-related medical bills were covered.
 
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