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Rasoleil
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Thank you for this post because you have answered serious questions about that I have had about Mass. I do earnestly try to attend Mass every Saturday or Sunday, but sometimes the issues with my disabilites prevent me from going every single week, though I feel deeply guilty about it. I am only 47 years old, but I have seizure disorders ( epilepsy), short term memory loss,coordination, missing time, hours at a time, etc. There have been times when I’ve thought I missed Mass (as well as any other things I’ve done for that particular day), but hadn’t, or been to Mass but only remember parts of it. I have gone to confession because I have missed Mass, even though my health wouldn’t permit it. In addition, I try not to take the lazy way out and rationalize by thinking that just because I’m feeling a little ill, that this is no excuse not to go. Then, of course, I risk the chance of my issues getting worse.I remember this question came up a while ago…
The question itself doesn’t quite capture everyone’s situation.
Here’s what I mean:
The question implies that there are 2 possibilities.
a. “a serious reason”
b. “does not have a serious reason”
But the Church doesn’t see it that way. Instead the Church envisions 3 possibilities:
a. able to attend Mass
b. physically or morally impossible to attend Mass
c. somewhere in-between
If one is fully able to attend Mass, then the obligation is there.
If one is physically or morally unable to attend, then there is no obligation.
Option C though is the one that’s relevant to your question. That’s the time when a dispensation might be appropriate.
A dispensation is available for those situations that do not fall into either extreme; or even situations where we’re just not sure.