@TheLittleLady,
Sorry I was so sharp with you about your advice. But it’s because I need to be firm about not getting into my personal situation here at CAF. It’s not because I think you are being mean, or that I don’t enjoy your participation. I want my privacy about my personal marriage.
Also, I actually personally don’t necessarily have the same conclusion about what the exception clause is referring to as the author of this article, yet I think his example of Mary and Joseph may be relavent and fit into it.
I actually believe the “porneia” which is cause for “divorce” refers to the union of the actual couple divorcing, and nothing to do with a third party involved. Porneia can be divorced, or rather is not binding on a couple.
1 Corinthians 6
Do you not know that he who joins himself to a prostitute becomes one body with her? For, as it is written, “The two shall become one."
I believe this is an example of what Jesus was referring to. And it can include all forms of unlawful unions. This more commonly applies to couples dating and sleeping together in our times and culture.
Nevertheless, the Church actually has NOT clearly defined the exception clause, so there are a few interpretations that do no necessarily contradict the Church’s Teaching about the indissolubility of the Sacrament.