Divorce and contraception are two areas where there is noted disagreement between Catholics and Orthodox. For Catholics, contraception is always wrong and it is impossible to dissolve a marriage.
For Orthodox, contraception may be a valid substitute for NFP if this method is unworkable, and the Church may economically dissolve a marriage.
How do the Eastern Catholic churches stand on these two issues?
First, I would like to point out that the Catholic Church does not oppose contraception - what she opposes is ARTIFICIAL contraception.
The following is my personal POV.
I believe the opposition to the Orthodox practice and belief on the matter is due to a misunderstanding or misinterpretation of the concept of
oikonomia.
Orthodox will allow for contraception or divorce as a matter of
oikonomia. To Catholics, these are divine laws that cannot be changed.
The tension comes about for two reasons:
First, non-Orthodox misinterpret
oikonomia as a prerogative to CHANGE THE LAW. But that is
not what
oikonomia is.
Second, there are many Orthodox who themselves misinterepret
oikonomia as a prerogative to CHANGE THE LAW. Thus, you may find some Orthodox who will claim that divorce or contraception does not miss the mark, or that “the Church has no problem with divorce or contraception.” Those are wrong attitudes and do not represent the patristic teaching on
oikonomia (or on divorce and contraception, for that matter).
What
oikonomia does is actually only one thing - it lessens or totally remits the usual canonical punishment associated with the violation of a certain law/canon of the Church (whether divine or ecclesiastical).
Oikonomia itself is
not and never a general rule, but is only ever applied in specific circumstances, according to the wise determination of a bishop or spiritual father.
Oikonomia never changes the law, MUCH LESS can one claim that
oikonomia can change the DIVINE law against divorce or contraception. The law upon which
oikonomia is to be applied is - BY THE VERY DEFINITION OF OIKONOMIA - to be regarded as the true norm and law for the Church - always.
So the use of
oikonomia in the Orthodox Churches should not and never be regarded as an attempt to change the normative status of the Church’s laws against divorce and contraception.
I believe that when non-Orthodox understand what
oikonomia actually is, and certain Orthodox return to the patristic understanding of
oikonomia, the tension on the issues of divorce and artificial contraception will be greatly diminished or disappear altogether.
Blessings,
Marduk