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At the time…the thread actually consisted of only a single page.

And I did explicitly give again (this time via a link…so as not to quote a big text again…it had just been quoted by me a few posts just above) the full text of the Catechism.
So basically one reading that post at the bottom of the single page is going to have in the normal course of things…read what had posted by me in #2 and #3. Indeed if they wanted to read the initial question at all …which is the reason they clicked on the thread…they will be reading quite logically the first the second post that was posted in answer.

Besides as I did refer the readers right back to the full text of the Catechism for the details of when it is a sin and when civil divorce (as described in the CCC) is not a moral offense.
 
So basically one reading that post at the bottom of the single page is going to have in the normal course of things…read what had posted by me in #2 and #3. Indeed if they wanted to read the initial question at all …which is the reason they clicked on the thread…they will be reading quite logically the first the second post that was posted in answer.

Besides as I did refer the readers right back to the full text of the Catechism for the details of when it is a sin and when civil divorce (as described in the CCC) is not a moral offense.
Hmmmmmmmmmm. Yet three readers misunderstood your point.
Warrior1979, Edward H and I. Our fault, I guess?
 
The original poster of the question however…thanked me for my answers…

Anyhow It has been explained.
 
The full rich text is very good and covers both where it is sinful…and where it is tolerated.

On the one hand:

Divorce is a grave offense against the natural law = sinful…(noting that it is indeed an offense against the natural law even turning up the heat…for those without the benefit of Divine Revelation can discover that it is immoral via reason etc)

2385 Divorce is immoral = sinful (the very meaning of immoral)

The text you quote is referring to when it is can be done …and note it says:

If civil divorce remains the only possible way of ensuring certain legal rights, the care of the children, or the protection of inheritance, it can be tolerated and does not constitute a moral offense

Thus then…civil divorce does not constitute a moral offense…whereas otherwise it can be a “moral offense”…

I of course understand that many have had to get civil divorces in ways that were not sinful (I refer to the act of getting a civil divorce)…as described above.

I understand where some can be as aware of the reality of divorce…for their own civil divorces fit under what is described above in the Catechism…or they have friends or family in such situations (fitting the above quote).

(and of course I pointed out it has been found by the Church that they were not married in the first place…then they were never married to begin with before God.)

And that being their personal experience with the idea of civil divorce …where it was “tolerated” as the only possible way of XYZ (see CCC quote above etc) in their married but separated state…they may not realize when it is sinful…
Divorce in the old testatment times was understood properly…it was a means to actually spur reconciliation…handing someone a bill of divorce had the social effect of putting someone in a very public penalty box…a last resort to get them to reconcile.

It didn’t have the meaning we give it today…unrightly an undoing of the marriage. No…a divorce still doesn’t undo a marriage. But ask the average person and they think it’s multiplying the marriage by a minus 1.

We’ve lost the true understanding of divorce.
 
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Catechism of the Catholic Church**

IV. Offenses Against the Dignity of Marriage …

Divorce

2382 The Lord Jesus insisted on the original intention of the Creator who willed that marriage be indissoluble.173 He abrogates the accommodations that had slipped into the old Law.174
Between the baptized, "a ratified and consummated marriage cannot be dissolved by any human power or for any reason other than death."175

2383 The separation of spouses while maintaining the marriage bond can be legitimate in certain cases provided for by canon law.176
If civil divorce remains the only possible way of ensuring certain legal rights, the care of the children, or the protection of inheritance, it can be tolerated and does not constitute a moral offense.

2384 Divorce is a grave offense against the natural law. It claims to break the contract, to which the spouses freely consented, to live with each other till death. Divorce does injury to the covenant of salvation, of which sacramental marriage is the sign. Contracting a new union, even if it is recognized by civil law, adds to the gravity of the rupture: the remarried spouse is then in a situation of public and permanent adultery:

If a husband, separated from his wife, approaches another woman, he is an adulterer because he makes that woman commit adultery, and the woman who lives with him is an adulteress, because she has drawn another’s husband to herself.177

2385 Divorce is immoral also because it introduces disorder into the family and into society. This disorder brings grave harm to the deserted spouse, to children traumatized by the separation of their parents and often torn between them, and because of its contagious effect which makes it truly a plague on society.

2386 It can happen that one of the spouses is the innocent victim of a divorce decreed by civil law; this spouse therefore has not contravened the moral law. There is a considerable difference between a spouse who has sincerely tried to be faithful to the sacrament of marriage and is unjustly abandoned, and one who through his own grave fault destroys a canonically valid marriage.178

http://www.vatican.va/archive/ENG0015/__P87.HTM#$2F1
 
**Compendium of the Catechism of the Catholic Church (issued by Pope Benedict XVI)
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347. What sins are gravely opposed to the sacrament of Matrimony?

1645-1648

Adultery and polygamy are opposed to the sacrament of matrimony because they contradict the equal dignity of man and woman and the unity and exclusivity of married love. Other sins include the deliberate refusal of one’s procreative potential which deprives conjugal love of the gift of children and divorce which goes against the indissolubility of marriage.
  1. When does the Church allow the physical separation of spouses?
1629
1649

The Church permits the physical separation of spouses when for serious reasons their living together becomes practically impossible, even though there may be hope for their reconciliation. As long as one’s spouse lives, however, one is not free to contract a new union, except if the marriage be null and be declared so by ecclesiastical authority.
  1. What is the attitude of the Church toward those people who are divorced and then remarried?
1650-1651
1665

The Church, since she is faithful to her Lord, cannot recognize the union of people who are civilly divorced and remarried. “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another, commits adultery against her; and if she divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery” (Mark 10:11-12). The Church manifests an attentive solicitude toward such people and encourages them to a life of faith, prayer, works of charity and the Christian education of their children. However, they cannot receive sacramental absolution, take Holy Communion, or exercise certain ecclesial responsibilities as long as their situation, which objectively contravenes God’s law, persists.

vatican.va/archive/compendium_ccc/documents/archive_2005_compendium-ccc_en.html
 
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