I’ve played Dungeons & Dragons since I was about 8 years old (33 now), obviously my understanding of the game has changed a bit in that time
. The game has changed alot too. I’ve played every version since the original except for the new version 3.5. I’ve attended conventions, renassiance faires (which don’t necessarily have anything to do with D&D, but similiar themes), I’ve been a player and a Dungeon Master (the referee and primary storyteller) I’ve also played and refereed a handful of other Role Playing Games. I’ve also been into Everquest for about 4 years now. EQ is a Massive Multiplayer Online Role Playing Game (MMORPG) designed and administered by Sony, it borrows heavily from the “Forgotten Realms” world of Dungeons & Dragons.
I see no conflict with Catholicism, there are certainly misinformed people out there that think its ‘devil worship’ or whatever - often these same people put dancing in the same category
In any case, D&D is very eclectic, there are guidelines and templates you can use to get started but many experienced DMs create their own house rules and custom designed game worlds. You could easily adapt the D&D rules to a campaign (long running game with a coherent story line) set in 11th Century Europe or similiar, play out the Crusades! (That’d be fun, maybe I’ll work on that
) Use any God, gods or combination. It’s
your world. Nothing more Catholic than roleplaying a Paladin (holy warrior) on a quest to recover the true cross!
You can have as much magic as you want - or none if you prefer.
It
can be very violent and I’ve been in adult games that had fairly gratitutious sexual content, but of course you are free to leave that out too. You could reduce the inherent violence to a few dice rolls instead of vivid descriptions or simply design a game that is more orientated to roleplay, problem solving and politics than combat.
It can be obsessive, I have hundred of books probably amounting to several thousands of dollars worth of stuff, including some very rare books that cost me a pretty penny in and of themselves. But like anything else, just keep your priorities straight.
I can’t put the time into it (or money) that I used to since I have a family now.