Is there ever a time when a DNR (do not resuscitate) order can be used without sinning. My father is 90 and does not want to be hooked up to a bunch of machine if something happens. At what point are we allowed to “let him go?” Can we have a DNR order with his directives that states that CPR is to be stoppped when the hospital is arrived at and nothing further be done if CPR and defibrillation have been unsuccessful up to that point. Can we state that no CPR or other measures may be used at all? We don’t want to sin in this area, and the materials I have read from Priests For Life haven’t answered my questions. Can’t we just die when we die and not take any measures?
I manage life support systems for a living. I have a little experience in this area.
Your question has two levels. The first is spiritual. On that I will give you an answer, but ask that you defer to a priest anyway, since as a layman I can only give my opinion. I cannot give you authoritative spiritual advice. IN MY OPINION as a Catholic layman in the medial field, a DNR order can be signed and followed on anyone at any stage in life, regardless of the circumstances, and there is no sin in this. Unlike food, water and basic medicine, heroic measures can be withheld, in any circumstance, if it is either the will of the patient, or the family, and the medical doctor deems it to be appropriate. The reason why, in my opinion, is because cardio-pulmonary resuscitation (CPR) is a form of “heroic measure.” Hence it is unnatural and extreme. Let’s face it, if I did CPR on a perfectly healthy alert person, I would be prosecuted for assault. There is nothing “natural” or “normal” about the process at all. In a 90 year old patient, cracked ribs will be a certain result, along with a possible lacerated liver, and maybe even a collapsed lung. All of this comes from pounding on the chest. Sorry to be so graphic, but this is truly the case. Ask any medical doctor.
The second question had to do with “when” a DNR can be implemented. Again, let me be frank. You can write anything you want down on paper, and that doesn’t mean it’s going to be followed, especially if there are any ambiguities. The trick to making a DNR work is to keep it simple. Setting things up for CPR during the ambulance ride, only to be discontinued at the hospital, is not very practical. Chances are, nobody will want to take responsibility for it, and the doctor is going to end up talking to you personally anyway before he decides to withdraw support. In which case you might as well not have had the DNR written the way you did in the first place, since it didn’t accomplish what you intended it to do.
Here is what I probably will do on my 90th birthday (or sooner). I will sign a DNR for a “med code only with defibrillator.” If that doesn’t work, “no CPR and no intubation.” That would cover all the bases in a perfectly ethical and “Catholic” way. Then if it’s not my time, the drugs and defibrillator should do the trick. If it really is my time to go, I will go peacefully, without any violence or drama.
That’s my 2 cents anyway. Hope it helps.
PS - you can leave out the defibrillator too if you want, as that is also a type of violence and “heroic measure.” Lot’s of patients opt for “med code only” on their DNR forms. This allows for a reasonable attempt to resuscitate without any pain or drama. If it doesn’t work, the patient dies peacefully.