Certainly not! And Mary actually very little presence in the mass at all. The accusation that the mass is all about Mary is 100% baseless, and anyone who’s attended a mass, no matter how anti-Catholic, could vouch for that. She does have a few feast days through the year (as do many other saints) but the mass itself is definitely not about her and I don’t see how it could reasonably argued as such. I mean, as much as I disagree with the idea that Catholics worship Mary, I can understand how some people can reach that conclusion because of their misunderstandings (though I don’t think it’s legitimate). In contrast, I can’t see how anybody could honestly declare that the mass is about Mary. Again, she is hardly mentioned in the mass, and then usually along with her spouse Joseph, and all the angels and saints included.
Sorry for the rant.
Regarding worshipping Mary, no, we do not. In English, the word worship has been applied to kings, judges, etc… It’s only in the lastcentury or so we’be started restricting the definition to apply to worship due to God along. Catholics have long used the term latria to apply to worship due to God alone, and dulia for the reverence and veneration of saints. Mary is said to be hyper-dulia, that is, due more veneration than other saints.
Catholics believe Mary is human. Catholics do not believe she is divine. Mary bows down to worship God: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Catholics believe that Jesus, who is fully human in addition to being divine, has given great honor to his mother in Heaven. The ancient kingdom of Israel honored the mother of the King as THE Queen. She was not greater or equal in authority than the king, but she did hold a special office in the kingdom. Such is Mary’s role, under Jesus, the new Davidic king. She prays for us all to God.
To understand Mary, though, you also have to understand the saints. Catholics believe all souls who go to Heaven can hear the prayers of those on Earth, and that those in Heaven are also unceasingly praying, as depicted in the Book of Revelation. The saints are in heaven, cleansed of all sin and concupiscense, in the presence of God, and their prayers are more effective due to their more sanctified state.
A common objection is that Jesus is the mediator between God and us. I’m sure your Baptist minister asked others to pray for him and his family, or for others in the parish. So did Saint Paul. Why ask others to pray when you can just ask Jesus? Because prayer is effective, and the more praying the better. Catholics just ask the saints (including Mary) to pray, too.
This was very hastily written. Forgive my rush.