Maybe my atheist friends are unusually perceptive and kind, but I have found that in my discussions with them about God and faith,
they have generally been positive about the tenents of Christianity as they know it through me while still maintaining a rejection of the system as a whole. I don’t underline “through me” out of any desire for personal glory, only to emphasize that through knowing me and **what kind of person I am **it gives them a different perspective on Christianity than if they only heard about it from people like Pat Robertson or Jerry Fallwell, because I think for so many atheists those people ARE Christianity.
**To know a Christian as their friend who sincerely loves them **and wishes only the best for them softens their stance on Christians even as they remain unaccepting of Christianity as a belief system just as surely as knowing them as atheists who sincerely love me softens my view of atheists as people even though I would never accept their views as my own. This is a very important reason we must LOVE atheists, not merely tolerate them (though some of them strain our abilities to do even that, I’ll admit), in addition to the fact that **our Lord’s teachings command us to love ALL **and to treat people as we would like to be treated. It is so very hard to hate the one who you know so well, even if you disagree with them in the most important matter. Or, as a friend of mine once put it: “It’s just that…well, y’know, you’re
Christian, and you seem like a really well-adjusted guy!”
Privately, I had a nice little chuckle over that one.