Tis_Bearself
Patron
Society is and always has been competitive in general. If competition doesn’t motivate you, there are actually more cooperative models for jobs and flat corporate structures available now than there have been in the past.
Also, most mature people can watch a ball game for fun without turning into Vince Lombardi about their life.
The only place I find competition a bit disturbing is at the high school and possibly early college level. Young people have not yet absorbed that their identity is not defined by, or the same thing as, their achievements gradewise, sportswise, college-admissions-wise, popularity-wise etc. While some thrive on it, others turn into the kind of people who judge everyone in terms of achievements (which school you graduate from, how much money do you make etc) and commit suicide when they have to face a serious “failure” in their life, like being let go from a job.
Also, most mature people can watch a ball game for fun without turning into Vince Lombardi about their life.
The only place I find competition a bit disturbing is at the high school and possibly early college level. Young people have not yet absorbed that their identity is not defined by, or the same thing as, their achievements gradewise, sportswise, college-admissions-wise, popularity-wise etc. While some thrive on it, others turn into the kind of people who judge everyone in terms of achievements (which school you graduate from, how much money do you make etc) and commit suicide when they have to face a serious “failure” in their life, like being let go from a job.