I think it’s wonderful that the priest you mentioned was willing to do this and alright I’ll stop complaining and making excuses. While, I keep in contact with the people I know from my Newman Center and will always consider myself a part of it, which is why I still use the word my, I am now in law school which means I should not be posting on here this much and better get back to writing my appellate brief. In regards to my Newman Center, there were no Eastern Catholic churches in the area. We did make a trip to visit a Ukranian monestary once though. And when I would go home I would ask questions about why Eastern Catholics do things certain ways so I could explain the differences to my Newman Center even if I don’t practice them.
The main issue is I am just very theologically confused because of the deLatinization of the Ruthenian rite and therefore I don’t understand it and I just don’t know what theology I believe in, who is right, what to do, what not to do, as everything has changed.
Here is what I follow:
If I see there is a day of obligation in the Latin Rite, usually my friends will go so I will too since going to mass is always good. On my callendar, if I see an obligation day for the Ruthenian Rite, I usually will go to mass anyways.
However, the only fasting regulation I follow is this:
I will not eat meat or dairy products on the first day of Lent, (Monday and not Wednesday, as that has never been different) and on Good Friday. On all other Fridays during Lent I will just abstain from meat but not fish. Anything beyond this is because I want to do it and not because I feel obliged to. For example, this Lent I gave up meat on all days except Sunday but I still ate fish.
In regards to other Fridays I follow the you can do an act of penance instead so I usually like to chant the Divine Mercy Chaplet, which is kind of Eastern if you think about it.
If this is acceptable I see no need to change rites since I really do like the Divine Liturgy when I decide to go and as I mentioned, if there were a choir I probably would join and go every week even if it meant driving 25 miles. However, I also like the songs that can be sung at the various different churches in the Roman Rite. Oh, and there is nothing wrong with being an Eastern Catholic but participating in the youth events with the Roman Rite Catholics and I’ve always been fine with this. I never had this conflict until now I’m being told that the regulations I follow are not acceptable and I don’t understand why if I never learned otherwise while I was young.
This will be my last ong post on the topic. I appreciate the responses and I will check them post when I have time but although I am dreadding the fact that I have to do this appellate brief, I better do it soon and probably will spend all day as in 10 am to 4am Sunday on it tomorrow. For now I am enjoying being lazy since tomorrow is going to be quite a day.