Do married priests/vicars need to purify themselves before celebrating Sunday divine liturgy/service

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In non-Catholic denominations do married priests require to ‘purify’ themselves for a period before celebrating the Divine Liturgy or a service of worship? If so what would this entail? For example would they need to isolate themselves from their family for a short period of time before celebrating a service/divine liturgy?
 
Which non-Catholic denominations? There are many of them. What is true of one need not be true of another.
 
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If you are talking about Anglican priests and protestant clergy in general, their answer would be 'No, there is nothing impure about marital relations , so no purification is required '. I do not know of any protestant denominations that would disagree with that statement
 
What happens if for whatever reason the minister’s wife or kids annoy him and make him angry and cause him to think bad thoughts or use bad words against them on the morning of Sunday service? Unless you are telling me that his wife and kids are always pure and 😇 angelic?

For the purposes of gender equality it may also be a husband that annoys and aggravates a female minister of course!
 
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What does a minister’s family annoying him or making him upset have to do with “purification”?

“Purification” questions usually refer to abstaining from sexual relations with your spouse. It’s not about getting along with your family.
 
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Well, as posted above, depends on which ones. However, in Eastern Catholic Churches it is customary for Priest to abstain from sexual relations for at least a day before celebrating Liturgy. I am not sure if it is indeed required with Roman Catholic Priests who are married (converts from Anglicanism for example).
What happens if for whatever reason the minister’s wife or kids annoy him and make him angry and cause him to think bad thoughts or use bad words against them on the morning of Sunday service?
That can happen to Celibate Priest too. He can simply be with his parents who annoy him, or his siblings or his nieces and nephews. They usually get rid of those things in penitential Rite of the Mass. If it is a mortal Sin, Priest should not celebrate Mass. I heard from one Priest that when he got into this situation he would celebrate Mass with mortal sin for sake of people (therefore incurring another sin) and then go to confession ASAP. Not sure if that’s ideal though. Ideally Priest should not celebrate Mass and find someone who will be able to provide him quick Confession or find replacement for himself.
 
He can simply be with his parents who annoy him, or his siblings or his nieces and nephews.
Or his parishioners 😜

A priest friend once jokingly told me : “folk are always asking me how I deal with celibacy, but honestly, that’s nothing compared to dealing with people !”
What happens if for whatever reason the minister’s wife or kids annoy him and make him angry and cause him to think bad thoughts or use bad words against them on the morning of Sunday service?
When it happens, I simply try to ask for forgiveness to the person and to God before leaving for the service. I remind myself of how Jesus tells us to reconcile with our brother before bringing our offerings before God. If there is no time (if, for example, something happens right before the service begins), I make a mental act of contrition for it during the penitential rite.
 
I am not sure if it is indeed required with Roman Catholic Priests who are married (converts from Anglicanism for example).
We’ve been over this before on the forum. Abstinence from spousal relations for some time prior to saying Mass is not required for married Roman Catholic priests.

Given that Roman Catholic priests usually celebrate Mass daily, you can see where it would be a problem if they had to abstain from relations for a day before celebrating Mass. There would likely be little or no time when they were allowed to have relations with their wives.
 
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When it happens, I simply try to ask for forgiveness to the person and to God before leaving for the service. I remind myself of how Jesus tells us to reconcile with our brother before bringing our offerings before God. If there is no time (if, for example, something happens right before the service begins), I make a mental act of contrition for it during the penitential rite.
This is pretty much what all Catholics, priests or not, are expected to do as well.
 
Given that Roman Catholic priests usually celebrate Mass daily, you can see where it would be a problem if they had to abstain from relations for a day before celebrating Mass.
Right… to be honest I did not quite remember if there was conclusion or not. I’ll try to keep it in mind. Logically abstaining before every Liturgy is almost impossible, but practicing continence before Sunday or so would be somewhat different.Then again, that is not official requirement of Roman Catholic Church. Thank you for correction.
 
Roman Catholics don’t really differentiate between Sunday Mass and daily Mass. The only difference is that lay people are required to attend the Mass on Sunday, so it tends to be a more elaborate Mass with a longer homily and often the longer forms of the consecration prayers. The Masses on weekdays are optional for lay people to attend, although the priest still has to say a Mass on that day. However, from the standpoint of the Mass’s importance and value as a prayer, the Mass on Wednesday is just as important as the Mass on Sunday to us, so no special rules for Sunday Mass.
 
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In non-Catholic denominations do married priests require to ‘purify’ themselves for a period before celebrating the Divine Liturgy or a service of worship?
Since marriage is a state of life ordained of God, there really isn’t anything to be purified of (beyond sins common to all people, married or celibate). Physical intimacy between a husband and wife is not sinful.
 
Obviously, it’s not sinful but if you look at the OT there’s a part where King David and his men are starving and the only food available is the loaves of proposition, which only the priests could eat. King David begged the high priest to give them to him for his men, and the high priest asked him if any of the men had relations with their wives. King David said no and the high priest gave them to him. Our Lord reproached the Pharisees once by telling them about this particular event in the OT.
 
Obviously, it’s not sinful but if you look at the OT there’s a part where King David and his men are starving and the only food available is the loaves of proposition, which only the priests could eat. King David begged the high priest to give them to him for his men, and the high priest asked him if any of the men had relations with their wives. King David said no and the high priest gave them to him.
Yes, and Old Testament priests and Levites had to abstain from sex as well during times of service in the temple. That has to do with ritual purity, and Christians are not morally bound by concerns over ritual purity. If a married priest is troubled by it, then he shouldn’t violate his conscience. However, he isn’t doing anything objectively wrong. That’s the way I see it.
Our Lord reproached the Pharisees once by telling them about this particular event in the OT.
Yes, to highlight the Pharisees’ legalism over Sabbath observance.
 
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Obviously, it’s not sinful but if you look at the OT there’s a part where King David and his men are starving and the only food available is the loaves of proposition, which only the priests could eat. King David begged the high priest to give them to him for his men, and the high priest asked him if any of the men had relations with their wives. King David said no and the high priest gave them to him. Our Lord reproached the Pharisees once by telling them about this particular event in the OT.
The OT considered a lot of other things impure as well - menstruating women, corpses, lepers and the like. Jesus explicitly broke many of these taboos in having physical contact with them. In doing so, He taught us that they no longer apply.
 
Abstaining from marital relations the day before Liturgy is still part of the rubrics of the UGCC.
 
in Eastern Catholic Churches it is customary for Priest to abstain from sexual relations for at least a day before celebrating Liturgy.
And indeed in the Lenten and Paschal Services for the entire period of the Great Fast and then Holy Week… And this includes harboring bad thoughts about anyone, including family members who grieve him for whatever reasons… Indeed, with all the restrictions on Priestly marital relations, given all the Fasts of the Church - eg Every Wed and Friday minus two weeks = 100 days, plus the three 40 day Fasts = 120 days, plus he variable Apostle’s Fast, say 20 days (average?), plus the day prior, another 50 days, it is a wonder that Priests have any children whatsoever! That is 290 days out of 365… And most of that applies to the laity as well…

I mean, they might as well BE celibate, I say! 🙂
Given that Roman Catholic priests usually celebrate Mass daily, you can see where it would be a problem if they had to abstain from relations for a day before celebrating Mass.
I did not know that Eastern Rite Priests are required to do the daily mass?

I had no idea…
Abstaining from marital relations the day before Liturgy is still part of the rubrics of the UGCC.
Indeed so as well in the EOC, both laity and clergy…
As is keeping the Wed and Fri Fasts in order to Receive on Sunday, for the Laity… And there are many who do not… Considerable numbers who do not fast at all…

And Churches that knowing this still serve them Communion…

So we have a tradition that holds that when someone is not Prepared to Receive Holy Communion, an Angel lifts out the Gift from the Body and Blood in that person’s Spoon as he or she receives, and it acts in the Grace transmitted as if it were Antidoron and Holy Water…

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I did not know that Eastern Rite Priests are required to do the daily mass?
I said “Roman Catholic Priests” which means Latin Rite, not Eastern Rite. We do not typically use the words “Roman Catholic” or “RC” to designate Eastern Catholics. We know they are in communion with Rome but they aren’t called RCs. Also, the person who asked the question to which I responded was specifically asking about Latin Rite, or so I understood.

I honestly have no idea how often Eastern Catholic priests celebrate their liturgy.
 
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