Ellie: You and I discussed a few posts back about the automatic defensive posturing of Mormons. This would be a very good example of said posturing.
The problem in this situation is that you’ve basically turned this into a “Damned if you do, Damned if you don’t” scenario. Let me clarify - are you familiar with the concept of the
Double-Bind? It’s one that, once I learned it, made Mormonism make a lot more sense to me.
Let me give you a common example of the Double-Bind in Mormon culture and apologetics. A Mormon gives me a copy of the Book of Mormon and challenges me to read it cover to cover. Then I am to pray about it, as discussed in Moroni 10: 4-5 - "…
…and I did not get an answer. I do not believe it to be true." The Mormon says, “Well, you must not have prayed hard enough.” Or, “Well, you must not have prayed with a sincere heart.” Or, “Well, you must be living with sin, that sin is keeping you from God.” You get the idea.
First off let me just state how I appreciate the fact that you are not providing a knee-jerk response but one that is thought out and reflects genuine effort of thought. This is not just the usual defensive posturing but you have made genuine effort at validating your perspective. That is significant to me.
Prior to your post double bind was not a concept of which I was aware. I have read your description and I visited the site you provided and several other sites that discussed it and I will absolutely agree that this paradigm does exist. However, and please bear with me, but examine this double-bind concept with a little more objectivity…I’m not trying to disagree but just letting you see my thought process. As I stated it is a real paradigm, however, even as I was reading your description on it the first thought that occurred to me was that the argument was applicable to many areas but particularly religion in general. After I read the site you provided, I knew that I could type in a dozen different searches into Google and find everyone twisting the double bind concept to object to their particular point of offense. Atheists use it to undermine religious claims, Christians to undermine Catholics and Mormons and Protestants.
Here’s one for a person who is caught in a double bind for the restraints of her Catholic religion:
http://www.fortunatefamilies.com/2012/dawns-story-dawn-elizabeth-wright/ . For space constraints, I won’t give a complete list of links but mixing up a few keyword searches with the word double bind will produce an eclectic brew for the discerning apologist or critic of practically any venue in life of which you can conceive. Few however are more absurd than Dawns story above…Here is an example for the supposed general double bind as perceived by someone concerning AA over religious themes in the AA program.
My God is okay. But the Gods represented by three of the main religions of the world today (Cristianity, Islam & Judaism) are, in large part, not like my God. I simply can’t get past the perception that the Gods represented by the organized religions are totally conditional, abusive, control freaks. There is a
double bind mechanism going on and double binds are, by their very definition, inescapable. Not that one can’t escape per se, but they are inescapable whilst complying with the “binds”. (
http://www.toxicdrums.com/is-god-an-abuser.html )
It’s obvious to me that if we explained double bind to James T. Kirk of the Starship Enterprise he would nod his head and tell you all about the Kobayashi Maru from his days at the academy. However, the interpretation of a set of events as a no win scenario can be applied to any organization with which one wants to take offense and it is particularly useful for decrying religion as a whole or any brand thereof. I can only ask that you think in broader terms and examine the potential abuse that comes from such a formula as double bind. Anyone can create these scenarios simply by filling in the formula. As a courtesy, I will not go into detail but one of the best examples is found within the history of the early Catholic Church relative to assessing a woman’s guilt for practicing the dark arts. However, let’s be clear, this example is not a focus point of this discussion and I do not want to consider it at this time but only to give you a point to consider in terms of the overall picture of your observations from a perspective that I hope will soften your bias to allow for a more generous consideration of how great is the potential abuse for using such a philosophical construct that is a poor construct for determining truth. For me, using the concept of double bind outside of the venue for which it was constructed brings it squarely into this venue:
Colossians 2:8
8 Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.
So, my point is that it is possibly a reasonable construct for the unnatural state of mind of a schizophrenic dealing with the nuances of the burdens of the mind which are unique to their situation. Their condition imposes a perceptual challenge that creates a particular type of stress that Gregory Bateson coined a descriptive phrase to reference. (Gregory Bateson, a British linguist who studied schizophrenia, where he used the term “double bind” to describe as a symptom the stress that a schizophrenic feels when perceiving two conflicting messages. (
http://www.toxicdrums.com/is-god-an-abuser.html))) That stress is not, IMO, universally applicable for the scriptural patterns of promise upon conditions, effort to achieve and failure when we fall short of fulfilling the conditions for whatever reason. How common it has become with contemporary societal indoctrination to absolve ourselves of any responsibility of the outcome – Double bind seems to me, because of its sophistic abuse, to simply be an expanded embrace whatever flavor of excuse rational that can be affixed to any demon of my choosing.
The key point and the one I think you were quick to overlook because you have accepted the paradigm of the double bind as applicable to Mormons, is that the double bind is not derived as a function of LDS theology. It is a function of scripture and more inclusively religion in General. Let’s look at a verse that is essentially the same construct that you considered the Moroni challenge to be:
James 1:5
5 If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.
6 But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed.
7 For let not that man think that he shall receive any thing of the Lord.
This verse suggests no more to you than does Moroni. If you wish to understand something, ask of God who is generous and gives to all men liberally and he will receive what he seeks. However, there are conditions and if you fail in them you receive nothing. Those conditions have limited measurable potential other than the receipt of the promised blessing. It is only a double bind when it fails. For those that apply the formula above and succeed they perceive no sense of double-bind. They receive the promised revelation and because LDS believe that the heavens are open and God still communicates with man we can’t possibly interpret the process as a double bind process. It works, it has for me and it has for others…and for some it does not work…people in general, not just LDS, always play the Job card and presume to judge the individual unwisely and in accusatory fashion. If someone try’s it and fails it is a logical conclusion that they failed to meet the conditions of receipt but I can’t say why that would be the case.
End of part one to be continued…