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OneSheep
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For me I just find that I am so ridiculously unaware about things. I really like the humble approach, it is a position of wisdom for me. I have made plenty of errors making assumptions!I guess it’s kind of the goal, the exact one being literally: what God wants… I usually see it as more of a humble thought process, where I admit that I could be wrong and that pride (or other things) could be clouding my view.
And so often the assumptions were one of assuming the negative about people, when reality is that they are operating under a lot of misconceptions just as I do/did.
But do you see what you are doing here? Very cool. You doing exactly as you said, you are being circumspect. When we look at what is going on in our minds, we are sort of “free” to stand back and look rather than be sort of imprisoned by what the mind is telling us.I’m guarding against future negativity…I may as well admit that I don’t always cooperate like I should.
“I’m guarding against future negativity” What a great reflection! “Guarding” in itself is a fear stance, but through reflection, now you are not caught up in the fear, but instead can look at the fear and understand it as part of the normal human working of the mind. (Unless you are putting yourself down about it, but that could also be transcended, so to speak).
Do you see what I’m seeing? I think that there might be some freedom in accepting that we all have “negativity biases”, and we sort of transcend them by observing the compulsion.
And then when you observe you are not cooperating as you should, let’s say you feel a little shame or guilt about that. if we admit our shame or guilt, we are already addressing the bias, right? And unless we find shame or guilt unacceptable, then we can just admit that feeling shame or guilt is okay, so we change our behaviors and move on, rather than hanging onto the negativity.
I’m really glad you put your voice here. You’re making a lot of sense!