*Blessed are those who mourn: they shall be comforted. *Matt. 5:5
“The eye has not seen, and the ear has not heard, nor has it entered into the heart of man, what things God has prepared for those who love him.” 1 Cor. 2:9
*Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth. The former heaven and the former earth had passed away, and the sea was no more. I also saw the holy city, a new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband. I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Behold, God’s dwelling is with the human race. He will dwell with them and they will be his people and God himself will always be with them. He will wipe every tear from their eyes, and there shall be no more death or mourning, wailing or pain, for the old order has passed away.”
The one who sat on the throne said, “Behold, I make all things new.” Then he said, “Write these words down, for they are trustworthy and true.” *Rev. 21:1-5
First of all, go to the Lord in your grief, because God wants to comfort you. It is the intention of God to use everything that causes us pain in this vale of tears as a way to draw closer, so that every time evil seems to win, it also suffers a defeat at the hands of grace. The Crucifixion was the greatest evil ever perpetrated, and yet God turned that most evil of all situations into the redemption of the world. That is how God works.
We have a tender-hearted God, a God who loves you. It was God who made your dog in a way that made her a friend and a delight for you. God does not forget so much as a sparrow, and even when you had moments in her life when you forgot your dog, God *never *did. God knows all about your loss, and is not hard-hearted about your grief or your loss. God has the peace of knowing all things and that all things will end with the total triumph of all that is good and right, while God also knows you have to have trust about these things.
Having said that, you can trust that when you are in the eternal presence of God, you will suffer no want. Heaven is not going to be what we imagine will give us unending joy. It will be what will in fact give us unending joy. God is not selfish, and did not order the universe without care for those who are in a relationship of love with Him. Love God first, and you can trust that everything good will follow after. Exactly how, we are not given to know, but we do know that it will come to pass, and there will be no tear that is not wiped away.