Crusader13:
I disagree with @TMC comments that it’s solely one side with a vocal opinion on what it means to be Catholic.
I think this is a fair comment. I mostly see one particular “side” take this attitude, but I can admit that the “other side” does a lot of the same. Maybe I don’t see it as much – too me the more vocal and strident voices are mostly on the one side. But that may only seem that way to me because of my own biases. In fact, that seems likely.
One thing I am pretty sure of is that most Catholics are not on either “side,” they are just trying to live their lives as best they can.