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Spoken4
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So then, if a family is in a position where there has been no income-- as in ZERO-- no unemployment benefits (as those have run out), no pay from a job because no one has found any work of even the most menial sort for 2 years despite the best efforts? The couple are older folks but not old enough to retire or to collect SS and they have faced likely but not provable age discrimination in their search and they can’t even get a job in fast-food or as a greeter in some store; they have nothing left to sell or eliminate like cable TV, Internet service or such; and they are living on donations, food stamps, and whatever they happened to have put up in savings-- and that’s even running out.
Is it a “good offering” or “spiritual tithe” for lack of a better term for them to give of their time through works of ministry within the Parish, AND to offer up prayers for the needs and intentions of the Parish until they can obtain some sort of financial income-- even a temporary job? They haven’t even been able to get that much even though both are college degreed people with job skills.
Their background: The husband was laid off in a major restructuring of the business over 2 years ago. Twenty-eight people lost jobs in that group, and since then, nearly everyone he worked with was hit-- even the HR Manager, ironically the one who “pink-slipped” our friend.
The man has at least 10 different patents in his field, but was just told the other day that his last interviewer didn’t think he knew anything about “the subject at hand”-- despite all of those patents in the exact field they were looking for. We all think he was knocked out of the race because he’s over 50, sadly. But that can’t be proven, other than that we know that a much younger person with far less education and experience was hired instead of our friend. He can’t even consult in this state, as that requires certain licenses, fees to the state and other hoops that cost a LOT of money.
The wife lost her job over 2 years ago–only a month before her husband-- when her last employer committed suicide and the business closed. She had a few interviews at first, but by then word of the suicide had spread through the local area and her interviews were more about “gossip” than actually INTERVIEWING her as a job candidate. She wouldn’t play ball in the gossip, especially since it hurt her deeply when her boss died, and she didn’t get hired. She was the first to find out of the death-- when the boss didn’t come in for 2 days, without calling in, and she sent the police to his home to check on him.
Thus, the family hasn’t got any money to put in the offering-- but the husband is a Lector and helps out in Hospitality, and the wife spends a lot of time working with CCW, St. Vincent DePaul Society and in Altar Service (cleaning and preparation) as well as both of them in prayer.
Do their sacrifices of time to the Parish Lay Ministries count as “spiritual tithes”, since they do support the work of the Church? Of course, they plan to contribute monetarily ASAP!! God bless them!
In Christ,
~Spoken4
Is it a “good offering” or “spiritual tithe” for lack of a better term for them to give of their time through works of ministry within the Parish, AND to offer up prayers for the needs and intentions of the Parish until they can obtain some sort of financial income-- even a temporary job? They haven’t even been able to get that much even though both are college degreed people with job skills.
Their background: The husband was laid off in a major restructuring of the business over 2 years ago. Twenty-eight people lost jobs in that group, and since then, nearly everyone he worked with was hit-- even the HR Manager, ironically the one who “pink-slipped” our friend.
The man has at least 10 different patents in his field, but was just told the other day that his last interviewer didn’t think he knew anything about “the subject at hand”-- despite all of those patents in the exact field they were looking for. We all think he was knocked out of the race because he’s over 50, sadly. But that can’t be proven, other than that we know that a much younger person with far less education and experience was hired instead of our friend. He can’t even consult in this state, as that requires certain licenses, fees to the state and other hoops that cost a LOT of money.
The wife lost her job over 2 years ago–only a month before her husband-- when her last employer committed suicide and the business closed. She had a few interviews at first, but by then word of the suicide had spread through the local area and her interviews were more about “gossip” than actually INTERVIEWING her as a job candidate. She wouldn’t play ball in the gossip, especially since it hurt her deeply when her boss died, and she didn’t get hired. She was the first to find out of the death-- when the boss didn’t come in for 2 days, without calling in, and she sent the police to his home to check on him.
Thus, the family hasn’t got any money to put in the offering-- but the husband is a Lector and helps out in Hospitality, and the wife spends a lot of time working with CCW, St. Vincent DePaul Society and in Altar Service (cleaning and preparation) as well as both of them in prayer.
Do their sacrifices of time to the Parish Lay Ministries count as “spiritual tithes”, since they do support the work of the Church? Of course, they plan to contribute monetarily ASAP!! God bless them!
In Christ,
~Spoken4