Do We Have to Sing Along During Mass?

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I don’t mean to belittle anyone and I don’t pretend to know anyone’s personal situation.

But short of a true problem of the voice or the ear, why wouldn’t people WANT to sing at Mass? I think singing ought to be taught to children if for no reason other than so they can sing at Mass. Singing is sort of a sacramental.

I realize that this does not actually address the original question. Of course there are valid reasons not to sing at Mass. But at least for the Ordinary Form, the default is that people sing when it is called for and refrain from singing when there is a reason not to do so.
I can say for me, because the only parish in my town plays low quality cheesy “hymns” from the abominable Gather, and I feel these are unworthy of so great an act as the Mass. Our choir director agrees but is bullied by some.
 
How?

I suppose St. AUgustine meant when he said that singing was praying twice that since you put so much energy and devotion into singing, (even if your voice isn´t harmonious) that it´s like elevating your prayer twice to God… 🤷
 
Of course singing is required. Sometimes, silence and inward participation is necessary. You will know the difference when words (and hopefully music) are supplied to the assembly, or the hymn sung is familiar to all, and the choir members are clearly doing their best to lead you in song. That is the role of the music ministers, to lead the assembly in praising God in song.

Failing to participate actively by singing along is a slap in the face to God, a slap to the presiding priest, and definitely a slap in the face to all the music ministers who carefully prepare and lend our talents to the Church for the greater glory of God.

I can tell you that we are baffled whenever we begin a song and we see the assembly sitting stony-faced without singing. We usually assume we have done something wrong. Sometimes we have. But it is certainly not a help to be spreading the uncharitable idea that it is perfectly OK to sit there and not make your best effort at singing during a liturgy.

I can tell you that I sang constantly as a child, and the more you sing, the better you get. It is a fallacy to say “I don’t sing because I don’t do it well.” If you don’t sing then of course you will fail! Do you think that skateboarders don’t fall down? Sorry there are no helmets to wear for singing, but believe me when I tell you that your voice will be stronger and more confident every single time you get out there and sing.

It is likewise arrogant to say “these hymns are poor in melody or doctrine and I will not sing until better fare is produced.” If nobody sings, then what motive is there for the pastor to improve the quality of what is sung? Does your pastor not have control over the type of hymns that are sung? Has he not prescribed to the director that hymns should be chosen for their relevance to the readings of the day? If your pastor is causing poor hymns to be chosen, then perhaps a word with him is necessary. But by all means sing them. The hymns that promote heresy are few and far between. There are over 800 hymns in Gather, and we accept them for their doctrine. Do not insult your pastor by refusing to sing songs he has authorized in good faith.
 
I just wanted to say, to people asking why one might say to sing once is to pray twice, is because song is often more sincere than a prayer. I’m sure it isn’t a general rule, but for most people, a lot more emotion, sincerity, and love goes into a song than into mumbling a few memorised prayers. But I’m sure some people prefer the prayers, and just hate singing.

As a choir member, I must say that it is always disappointing to go to sing at a Mass, and have nobody join in. It not only makes us feel stupid singing all alone up there, but it invalidates the whole reason for us being there. The choir director, the pastor, and my fellow choir members (even I at times) never tire of reiterating that we are there to “lead the choir in song, not to give a concert.” Our priest once told me that there is no appropriate place in the Mass for a solo part, even if it does occur sometimes.

I know that not everyone wants to sing, and not everyone should sing. But it would be much appreciated if you did. To be honest, not even everyone in our choir sings all that well. We just love to have people involved.
 
Of course singing is required. Sometimes, silence and inward participation is necessary. You will know the difference when words (and hopefully music) are supplied to the assembly, or the hymn sung is familiar to all, and the choir members are clearly doing their best to lead you in song. That is the role of the music ministers, to lead the assembly in praising God in song.

Failing to participate actively by singing along is a slap in the face to God, a slap to the presiding priest, and definitely a slap in the face to all the music ministers who carefully prepare and lend our talents to the Church for the greater glory of God.
Well said Elizium. This very successfuly articulates what is expected of the congregation. I am fed up with people who say they “prefer to listen to the choir”. Fair enough if the choir is singing a motet or a polyphonic setting, but congregational settings means that we are all supposed to sing. Our parish has the main mass at 10.30pm with the choir where only a few people sing, and another mass with hymns and congregational settings at 12noon where perhaps 5 or 6 people out of 200 or so sing. It is painful to behold the organ trotting out the tunes while none participate.
 
Look, the question is pretty straightforward - why should the same words, just said differently, somehow make a prayer twice as valuable? I was serious about it, but apparently it was more important to insult me than to teach. It’s stuff like this that leads me to believe “he who sings prays twice” is just one of those cliches that sounded good to people so they started repeating it without knowing why.
It’s not a different voice:

It’s a tune (which may or may not have a voice)
It’s harmony (other tunes in tune with the first tune)
It’s rhythm and pacing,
It could involve instruments, which add the richness of their own “voices”

I don’t understand how you could think that saying something is as rich as singing, or singing with musical accompaniment. I don’t get it that you don’t get it. 🤷

I sang in church choirs for nearly 30 years. It’s a ministry. It adds to the celebration.

Next time you have a birthday cake ask everyone to say Happy Birthday instead of singing it! Maybe have them whisper it to themselves.

Next time it’s Christmas recite the carols instead of singing them.

Next time you are at a hockey game just say your national anthem.

Then you might “get” the difference.

What I’m reading is a subtext that those who support Church music are OF’ers, or that the only music that people will participate in is country and western style, or rock style. I dunno… maybe I’m wrong.
 
I can tell you that we are baffled whenever we begin a song and we see the assembly sitting stony-faced without singing.
This phrase encapsulates perfectly what I see week after week in our churches. I was at a confirmation mass on Saturday night at Westminster Cathedral and the processional hymn was the very beautiful and appropriate “Come Down, O Love Divine” and as I and a few others sang we were surrounded by stony faces simply refusing to make an effort. It is a real mystery to me and I hate it.
 
Next time you have a birthday cake ask everyone to say Happy Birthday instead of singing it! Maybe have them whisper it to themselves.
This is actually what I do. Not the whole song of course, but I’d rather they just tell me happy birthday than sit through the whole awkward song. That’s just me, though, and I really don’t care how others like it on their own birthday. In most cases I don’t advertise my birthday in the first place because I hate the attention.
Next time it’s Christmas recite the carols instead of singing them.
Next time you are at a hockey game just say your national anthem.
Then you might “get” the difference.
What I’m reading is a subtext that those who support Church music are OF’ers, or that the only music that people will participate in is country and western style, or rock style. I dunno… maybe I’m wrong.
This would all be fine, if my question were “is singing different from normal speech?” Obviously it is and I was never questioning that. The question was about how singing = “praying twice.”
 
So I’m trying to explain to someone who would rather have their friends and relatives just say Happy Birthday than sing it!😛

It’s praying twice in the same way that singing a Christmas Carol is more moving than saying it!

Look, the music has it’s own form. To play the music requires effort, and the (name removed by moderator)ut of emotion (yes, even Gregorian chant). The effort and the sound when done in the context of prayers (like the office) or liturgy are a prayer. The words sung are also prayer.

If you have kids singing to them is more expressive than talking to them.

We put more of ourselves into singing than saying!

Maybe it’s not twice, maybe it’s only 1.9 times, or 2.345 times depending on the effort expended!
 
Yes, singing is required by the GIRM, as an expression of the unity of the faithful.

Just a reminder of this early post by Gorgias.
Well, since we’re not trying to be cheerful, but just talk about ‘rules’, here’s what the GIRM (‘General Instruction on the Roman Missal’) says:

“96. Moreover, [the faithful] are to form one body, whether in hearing the Word of God, or in taking part in the prayers and in the singing, or above all by the common offering of the Sacrifice and by participating together at the Lord’s table. This unity is beautifully apparent from the gestures and bodily postures observed together by the faithful.”

So, I think that it’s fair to say that the GIRM envisions that the congregation will be praying and singing. However, that’s not to say that it mandates it, per se.
If you really can’t sing then you should attempt to show your participation in some way, by, for example, mouthing the words and making some sound. Just like a person who can’t kneel should at least bow, or show some participation in the common gestures.

Visibly objecting to the common actions is not an option (except in the most extreme situation). It also insults and undermines all the efforts of the pastor and the music ministers, and does nothing to get the sort of music you want, as very well explained by Elizium.

I also note that some of people who think that they are entitled to not participate in singing are very quick to find the rules on other matters and demand strict adherence, overruling pastoral provisions. Why did they ignore this post early in the thread which published the rules?
 
This phrase encapsulates perfectly what I see week after week in our churches. I was at a confirmation mass on Saturday night at Westminster Cathedral and the processional hymn was the very beautiful and appropriate “Come Down, O Love Divine” and as I and a few others sang we were surrounded by stony faces simply refusing to make an effort. It is a real mystery to me and I hate it.
I came to the Catholic Church from the Anglican Church, where singing is always fulsome, and I too was puzzled and offended by the “stony faces” who left the singing to a small few (including me), who weren’t sure whether we were doing the right thing or not.

Nevertheless, I kept singing, with good hymns and bad hymns, for 30 years. Last year I joined the Church choir. Our parish now sings a very good setting of the liturgy and some very good hymns, and about 50% of the people join in. It feels like the end of a drought.

Recently we sang “Be Thou My Vision”, which is one of my all time favourites. I’ll try and suggest “Come Down, Oh Love Divine”. Then I will feel that it has all been worth waiting for! 😃
 
So I’m trying to explain to someone who would rather have their friends and relatives just say Happy Birthday than sing it!😛

It’s praying twice in the same way that singing a Christmas Carol is more moving than saying it!

Look, the music has it’s own form. To play the music requires effort, and the (name removed by moderator)ut of emotion (yes, even Gregorian chant). The effort and the sound when done in the context of prayers (like the office) or liturgy are a prayer. The words sung are also prayer.

If you have kids singing to them is more expressive than talking to them.

We put more of ourselves into singing than saying!

Maybe it’s not twice, maybe it’s only 1.9 times, or 2.345 times depending on the effort expended!
Okay, that makes more sense even if “twice” isn’t meant to be taken absolutely literally… Although from the looks of things, apparently that wasn’t even a real quote in the first place. Still, I’d rather just pray twice. I appreciate music in general just as much as the next person, but for me trying to incorporate it with prayer only distracts me from the actual substance of the prayer.
 
So I’m trying to explain to someone who would rather have their friends and relatives just say Happy Birthday than sing it!😛
Is this really so weird?

I have Asperger’s by the way so that might be a part of why I’m not catching on to certain things everyone else seems to just take for granted. It wouldn’t be the first time I’ve been looked at suspiciously for not conforming to everyone else’s arbitrary preferences.
 
My fervent hope is that God also makes fun of that hymn. But He is the God of perfect compassion, even for the composers of bad music.
I have thought of that and it makes me feel a bit guilty, but some of the lyrics are so inane! Its just too easy to parody them.
 
Look, the question is pretty straightforward - why should the same words, just said differently, somehow make a prayer twice as valuable? I was serious about it, but apparently it was more important to insult me than to teach. It’s stuff like this that leads me to believe “he who sings prays twice” is just one of those cliches that sounded good to people so they started repeating it without knowing why.
Exoflare, here’s my take. I sometimes sit in front of the most tone deaf old lady on earth, and she loves those old hymns, so she belts them out. I imagine that God is really enjoying her joy, and that she is really “praying twice”. Ditto the choir members and parishioners who simply want to praise God with song because they owe Him such extravagant praise.

However, there are also those who are simply showing off. Do they pray twice? Yes, but only to themselves.

It was a fair question.
 
Okay, that makes more sense even if “twice” isn’t meant to be taken absolutely literally… Although from the looks of things, apparently that wasn’t even a real quote in the first place. Still, I’d rather just pray twice. I appreciate music in general just as much as the next person, but for me trying to incorporate it with prayer only distracts me from the actual substance of the prayer.
The saying is very figurative. In a sense, it is right: singing almost always solemnizes an otherwise un-solemn set of words. But if the music has ridiculously cheesy lyrics (which the vast majority of what passes for “Catholic” music nowadays has) or is low-quality, or is performed poorly, then it is the opinion of many that it is better to just not sing at all.
 
What I’m reading is a subtext that those who support Church music are OF’ers,…
There does seem to be a sub-text that because the “hymn sandwich” is not required then participation is not required. The first part is correct - the hymns are not required. This has been pointed out a number of times in these forums. It’s also not well known - I didn’t know it until I discovered it here. However, the inference that participation is not required is incorrect. If hymns are present, then the congregation should attempt to participate, as stated in the GIRM.
 
Okay, that makes more sense even if “twice” isn’t meant to be taken absolutely literally… Although from the looks of things, apparently that wasn’t even a real quote in the first place. Still, I’d rather just pray twice. I appreciate music in general just as much as the next person, but for me trying to incorporate it with prayer only distracts me from the actual substance of the prayer.
Is this really so weird?

I have Asperger’s by the way so that might be a part of why I’m not catching on to certain things everyone else seems to just take for granted. It wouldn’t be the first time I’ve been looked at suspiciously for not conforming to everyone else’s arbitrary preferences.
I DON’T have Asperger’s and people STILL look at me funny!:o

Also, I tend to sing quite loudly - but I do have a good voice - so I really appreciate good music in Church that I can participate in.

However, I do find a lot of music both too high and too low for normal adults to sing comfortably.

When I led music at mass I would lower the music by three full tones to allow for more comfortable singing. That always seemed to help with participation.
 
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