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Portofino
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You are right – even in our experience, there are times when we realize that we were never quite as free, as we had believed.Well, you might agree that we can easily name a few instances in life where it seems like we don’t have free will. If you stick your hand in a pot of boiling water, do you have any real control over as to whether you immediately pull it or not? Certainly, you may be tempted to attribute your inevitable reaction to ‘instinct,’ but I don’t see how this isn’t still a question of free will. For that matter, do you have any choice as to whether you understand the sentence you’re reading right now? Could you choose not to understand that sentence, or this one? What if you read the word “Elephant” right now? Do you have any choice as to whether a picture of an elephant appears in your mind when you do?
It seems apparent to me that, at the very, very least, there are times in life when we don’t have the ability to choose what we choose. So given that, what are the implications for having “free will” in general? What is more likely, that we are gifted by the gods a ‘selective free will,’ applicable at certain times in life, but not others? OR, that even the moments in life where we appear to demonstrate real free will are simply illusory?
I can give an obvious example, having to do with a dog, not a person. I knew of someone whose dog was afraid of all male visitors. As his owner explained, it was *because * the dog had had an abusive male owner, as a puppy. Whether this was the case with the dog or not, explanations such as this certainly apply to human beings as well – for example, the woman who no longer trusts men, after having been raped.
The worst case scenario is when the individual is not aware of the ways in which his perceptions – and reactions – are being influenced. One may try to repress a painful childhood memory, for example, and not be aware of how significantly that experience has influenced one’s behavior (for example, a humiliating experience that has prompted one to avoid similar experiences of that type).
I think the philosopher Spinoza spoke of a provisional or “soft” freedom, which was in becoming *aware *of the ways in which our behavior has been determined. This approach to better understanding the determinants of one’s behavior – the ways in which one has been influenced or “controlled” – does show that, in an important sense, freedom is not a given, but an achievement.
This insight into the underlying motives of one’s behavior can be extremely subtle – and the more subtle, perhaps, the more fallible – but is, nevertheless, valid. Take, for example, a patient who tries to understand why he avoids close or intimate relationships. He may not understand his own emotions. Through self-knowledge and memory, he realizes – for example – how devastating the death of his father had been to him, when he was a child (which was the case of actor Anthony Perkins). Perkins had come to the realization that, on some level, he was *afraid *of intimacy, because he didn’t want to lose someone – unpredictably and without warning – in the way he had lost his father.
Again, these more subtle manifestations of self-knowledge that can be doubted or even ridiculed – again, the more subtle, the more fallible-- but there can be truth in them.
So yes, I certainly see that there are ways in which we are very much influenced in our behavior – including in racism or prejudice, if we grew up in a household where everyone around us had fed us negative stereotypes, and reinforced them.
A Protestant can make the same realization about his attitude towards Catholics, saying “when I was a child, Catholics were the enemy”, or vice versa.
So, paradoxically, understanding the underlying causes of one’s attitudes, and of the motives of one’s behavior, enables one to experience freedom as an achievement, not a given. To understand all of the ways in which one is determined – or influenced – is, ironically, empowering. Self-knowledge becomes an important key to freedom.