Don’t you think it depends on how well a person has developed spiritually, Cat? I can appreciate that a revert or someone not very strong yet in their faith would need to find spiritual nourishment to help them grow closer to Christ. Those reverts who work and only have one hour for mass on Sunday would truly not be remiss in their desire to “be fed.” Maybe that is the interior call that the Spirit is giving them for this time in their lives.
St. Teresa of Avila spoke about these reverts in her early mansions of Interior Castle, saying that they have a deep desire to hear good** homilies**, read good books, etc.
Those of us who are spiritually balanced enough to stay within our own parish may be able to overlook many deficiencies and open our hearts to serve and take an active part in the parish community.
I speak from the perspective of a Catholic who converted after 47 years of evangelical Protestantism.
THE key stumbling block for evangelical Protestants is the issue of authority. Evangelical Protestants believe in sola Scriptura, and that they themselves are part of the “priesthood of all believers” and therefore are able to interpret the Scriptures themselves according to the leading of the Holy Spirit.
That’s why they “church hop”–because they believe that the Holy Spirit is leading them from church to church.
I think the hardest thing for any evangelical Protestant is to get to a place where they are willing to hand over the authority that they have enjoyed all their lives to a human being who they don’t even know personally, and to accept that this man speaks for Jesus Christ on this earth, and that this man is the leader of a real and visible Church on this earth. It is very hard for an evangelical Protestant to OBEY a man/Church instead of “the leading of the Holy Spirit.”
And thus, I think that it is a poor idea for a convert to begin their Catholicism by saying, “I don’t want to attend my territorial parish, so I’m going to shop around and attend a parish that I DO want to attend.”
It seems to be a continuation of the same “I follow the leading of the Holy Spirit instead of the leading of a human being” attitude that characterizes evangelical Protestantism.
On the other hand, I really have no right to impose a burden that Holy Mother Church has NOT imposed. In recent years, many bishops, including ours, have lifted the requirement to attend a territorial parish, and this means that converts and cradles are both free to attend the parish of their choice. So there is no disobedience when a Catholic (convert or cradle) decides to attend a different parish than their territorial parish.
So submission to authority isn’t an issue and I’m wrong to fuss over it. I just hate to see the “parish” method of organizing Catholics disappear after so many centuries. It was such a good system.

But time marches on and changes happen, and thankfully, Holy Mother Church is not stuck in the past.