What does it say about a person if he/she does or does not believe in global warming?
In my books it says that person does not care about life on planet earth, or he/she is blocked with some unreasonable fear or ideology, or doesn’t really understand the science or implications.
I’d still try to convince that person that we are harming and killing people thru GW, and it is wrong, and present him/her with good cost-saving measures to mitigate climate change.
I could very easily work with that person as a colleague, and if it were an environmental group, we could find common ground in seeking solutions that not only mitigate climate change, but also many other problems, some of which he/she was concerned about, or approach it from the money-saving angle.
What does it say about a romantic partner if he/she does or does not believe in global warming?
If I were a young unmarried person now, I personally can’t imagine having a romantic partner who wouldn’t agree with me on basic life issues, and certainly not marrying him. He would have to accept climate science and be into mitigating GW, and would have to be anti-abortion. Life is a non-negotiable in my books. Physical attraction and infatuation, no matter how strong, don’t amount to much over the long haul.
Now it just so happened that I met and married my husband in 1969, well before I was concerned about global warming, and even before abortions were legal…so it wasn’t a topic we discussed (I can’t remember), but I thank God that he is against abortion, accepts climate science, and goes along with us mitigating global warming. I think it would be a minor hell for me if he did not, and I guess God understands I’m such a weakling that he didn’t give me that cross. (We do have plenty of other disagreements, though.)
For you, the global warming issue may or may not be important. If it is highly important, you would have both realized your differences within a few hours of getting to know each other, and the relationship would have fizzled out…unless this is something that became important to you after establishing the relationship.
If global warming is a very serious issue to you, then you need to understand that once people are into GW denial, they do not change that position no matter what (as you can see here on CAF). And, as my husband’s uncle, a parish priest, used to say, you do not marry someone to change them; you have to accept them as they are. (Not that you should ever give up trying to change bad habits, etc. – good luck with that!!)
When selecting a marriage partner, it is best to be compatible on as many things as possible, esp important things. Plenty of marital trials and tribulations (hairshirts and penances) will crop up along the way in the years and decades to come, during which GW will be getting worse & worse, and will lead to serious problems, stresses, and conflicts. There is no need to start out with big areas of disagreement while the choice is still open. Marriage is difficult enough without added problems.
You can do what I did as a young, unmarried woman feeling frustrated I could not find a husband. In those days (pre-women’s-movement), considering I was not Catholic and religous orders were not an option, marriage was the only option for women. So what I did was make a very sincere prayer to God to find me a good husband – then I gave the laundry list of what I wanted in a husband, ending with, “and most importantly it should be someone who leads me to the right religion and brings me closer to You, God.”
Two months later there he was, my special order, exact to specifications, including leading me to the right religion, Catholicism. My Catholic boy! It was so astonishing, a total miracle.
My prayers are with you in your life’s journey.