I also agree on the influence a bishop has in a diocese. We are currently ‘between bishops.’ I keep hearing so much that is positive in Archbishop Timothy Dolan of New York and Cardinal Pell in Australia. It can’t be wrong to pray for our diocese to get a bishop like these men. I know there are other awesome bishops, too - Bishop Robert Baker, for starters. We are really hurting for priests here, and have had too many church closings to show for it. Before anyone comments on the financial aspect, we have had churches that were economically self-sufficient that were closed, due to the shortage of priests.
On the topic of marriage and commitment, now that I understand where you are going with that, I must also agree. Just looking at my son’s friends, the overwhelming majority have parents who have been divorced. Sadly the rate of divorce, from all I have read and heard, is about the same for Protestants and Catholics. I think it has to do with the frame of mind going into marriage, and well as not making the distinction between what is morally right as opposed to legally right. I hate to drag abortion into this, but abortion and divorce are legal. As long as people, regardless of their faith, equate legality with Truth, and accept legality as a measure of morality, society will remain in its current ‘rut.’ And it will continue to get deeper. To get back to topic, this mentality affords people an ‘out’ when they go into marriage. Instead of going into marriage and seeing it as a lifelong commitment, they go into it knowing that if things don’t work out, they can legally be divorced. So, I can easily see where the example of failure in the vocation of marriage might well make the commitment required to be a priest seem difficult to achieve - or not even worth the effort. Are more priests choosing to leave the priesthood now than in the past? I have recently heard of a number of such cases, but I’m not sure what that means. I tried to find statistics.
I think the scandals have also hurt. It isn’t that they don’t occur in other areas of society, but the priesthood seems to be a preferred target.