Well, I guess that’s it, then. I’m no longer Catholic: I am sundered from the Church.
I cannot hold or accept a Feeneyite view of salvation, that reduces the sacrament of Baptism to a magic spell that prevents God from exercising His own power to save as He desires.
I mean, how do I even know I’m baptized, myself? I mean, I could work my behind off to love the Lord my God with all my heart and strength and mind, and love my neighbour as myself, and even die a martyr for my faith: only to end up at the Judgement and have God say, “Y’know, John, kudos on the effort down there! But it turns out that Fr O’Malley, the priest who ‘baptized’ you, withheld his intent at the time (he was having some issues), so unfortunately, it didn’t ‘take’…I’d love to save you, but, sorry, what can I do? My Hands are tied. Go to Hell.”
So where do I go now?
If I understand you correctly, you are addressing the principal that a valid Sacrament requires correct matter, form, minister, and intent. (I believe that Baptism is considered so essential that any person is acceptable as minister. So, for instance, a Muslim who performs an emergency Baptism, say as a favor for a Catholic friend, as long as he is doing what the Church intends, that Baptism is valid). But, what if Fr. O’Malley withheld his intent? Doesn’t this example indicate that our Salvation is simply left up to the vagaries of fate?
First off, I would posit that the Fr. O’Malley case, as well as the friendly Muslim, while both possible, are both highly unlikely, and would have occurred infrequently in History.
Nevertheless, St Thomas, I think, does deal directly with the idea that our Salvation might be left open to blind fate:
St. Thomas Aquinas,
De Veritate, 14, A. 11, ad 1: Objection- “It is possible that someone may be brought up in the forest, or among wolves; such a man cannot explicitly know anything about the faith. St. Thomas replies-
It is the characteristic of Divine Providence to provide every man with what is necessary for salvation… provided on his part there is no hindrance. In the case of a man who seeks good and shuns evil, by the leading of natural reason, God would either reveal to him through internal inspiration what had to be believed, or would send some preacher of the faith to him…”
So, God knows the heart. He will provide even in circumstances of invincible ignorance, either through natural means or miraculously, if that be His will. Likewise, He would not allow that fault of Fr. O’Malley to rob Salvation from one of His elect.
My simple faith, (simple, though well informed by St. Thomas), is that the Savior simply would not allow the scenario you fear, as long as you are a man of good will.
Keep the Faith!