In reference to a post of mine about wicca that you replied to, and apparently reported me for
I did not report you. The only person I have reported on this thread is “Ecclesiasticus,” and I told him that I was doing so. I do not report people behind their backs–I dislike having to do it at all, but in that case his ill manners were so extreme that I thought it necessary. I assure you that in the unlikely event that I ever report you I will tell you. I disagreed with what you said and thought it unfairly harsh, but as you said it consisted of the sincere expression of an opinion, not of pointless insult. If things are as you believe, then you expressed yourself rightly.
One of my most strongly held but (on this forum) least popular opinions is that former members of anything are generally less suited, if anything, to understand it than those who have never belonged to the tradition in question. I have trouble understanding why Catholics reject this principle when applied to other religions, since they all (rightly) appeal to it when speaking of ex-Catholics. I certainly want to hear your insights as a former Wiccan, but I also recognize that the act of converting generally causes one to remember the bad stuff primarily, just as happens in the breakup of a romantic relationship. (This is one of the reasons I find it so hard to convert to Catholicism, actually–I fear that the same thing will happen to me.) It may well be, of course, that the causation is the other way round–that the people who have bad experiences in a religion or belong to it for the wrong reasons are more likely to leave it. But I’m not going to discount what people who are now Wiccans tell me on the strength of what you and other ex-Wiccans tell me. Their experience is theirs, and yours is yours.
The experience I described with my grandmother (in my earlier post) has shaped my understanding of these things, just as your experience with Wicca has shaped you.
As a former Wiccan, what exactly do you mean when you say that Wiccans don’t practice Christian love?
Once again, I assure you that I did not report you and unless you start spewing random insults as Ecclesiasticus did, I am not going to do so.
Edwin