CBailey:
Thank you so much for your reply!
How can I find out more about the Third Order of Carmelites?
Would this website help me to learn more? Or is there another, that you recommend?
ocarm.org/eng/articles/rtoc-eng.htm
thanks!
Carol
Dear friend
This site is good for getting to learn more about the Carmelite Order, but if you are considering a life of prayer, I would speak to your Priest and ask Him for the list of the Directory of Orders within your local area , of Carmelites, contact the Order that is nearest to you and speak to them, ask to meet with them and discuss their spirituality.
**It is essential you find the right order for your spirituality. **Otherwise you are not at HOME in God, you must ask the Holy Spirit to help you discern and you must pray and pray and pray and when you think you have prayed enough, pray some more!!! Pray before the Blessed Sacrament and ask Jesus to send the Holy Spirit to help you discern your course in Him. Take heart there are many rooms in God’s house and a place for you is there as certain as day is day and night is night, there is no doubt in this. God is calling you to Him in deeper union with Him, take heed and answer His call, but discern that it is not your will but God’s will and discern where He wants you to be, because where He wants you to be may not be where YOU think He wants you to be!!!
So don’t ignore His call, don’t put it off or delay…make an appointment with your Priest and discuss it with Him and ask for a list of ALL orders within your Diocese.
In Carmelite orders you must also have a devotion to the Rosary and to the Blessed Mother Mary, a deep love and devotion to her. Attend daily Mass but if not possible 2 or 3 times a week and if you cannot do this it is not a sin to be unable to (say a child of yours is sick etc)
I was extermely blessed by God and found the right order straight away, immediately I knew this is where I should be and this was the right order for my spirituality, but dear friend, you need to pray and pray and pray and find the right one for YOU
I will keep you in my prayers for discernment and for your spiritual happiness
God Bless you and much love and peace to you
Teresa