And it also tells us to honor our mother and father.
Jesus also tells the Pharisees, directly, “For God said, ‘Honor your father and your mother,’ and ‘Whoever curses father or mother shall die.’” (Mt 15:4)
So, what are you claiming? Are you saying that Jesus meant “literally bear hatred for them in your heart, but don’t curse them; despise them, but honor them”? Seriously… that’s what you’re going with?
If not, then it’s necessary to find an analysis that makes these statements consistent with one another. Let’s find your quote in Scripture:
But wait – there’s more! This saying is reported, too, in Matthew!
Hmm… in Matthew, the saying makes it clear that it’s about “loving [parents] more than” loving Jesus. Gee… do you think that’s what it means in Luke, too? Nah… it makes more sense to rail that Jesus is being contradictory…
You prefer the conclusion that the Bible itself isn’t internally consistent? Good luck with that one…
You keep going back to these. We’ve explained them thoroughly. Is that the best you’ve got, in order to show a lack of internal consistency in the Bible? C’mon, now…