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JimG
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First, gay marriage is simply not marriage. It cannot be marriage, since no marital relations are possible. It would simply be the conferring of state benefits upon an alternative lifestyle, and there is no benefit to society in that.But do you really believe that if you continue to make gay marriage illegal, all those people currently identifying as gay will marry opposite-sex partners instead and produce children? I don’t, and therefore that argument doesn’t really make sense to me. Even the Catholic church acknowledges that people are born gay and should lead chaste lives, which is why I don’t expect our church to ever accept gay marriage. But for the rest of society, who doesn’t believe in chastity in general, I don’t see any benefit to prohibiting gay marriage. True Catholics will never want to be in a gay marriage, so we have nothing to worry about in that regard. But if you agree with our church that gay people are born that way, which I do, prohibiting them from getting married will do nothing to increase the birth rate. It would just decrease the likelihood that they would be promiscuous in their behaviors.
There is a benefit to society in recognizing and promoting actual marriage, from which comes the next generation of citizens and taxpayers. Society depends upon families to raise the next generation of children, and no, two dads are not as good as mom and dad.
The more the state devalues real marriage–and recognizing gay marriage does do that–the more it finds itself taking on the role of parent, and Uncle Sam is not a great dad. Real marriage builds up society. Fake marriage–including cohabitation–tears it down.