Do you lose your virginity?

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Hello everyone,Just went back from a LSS programme,Im feeling great and cant wait to get confirmed on 12 Sept 2010.And this is just after the Father Stan’s and Bob Rice Youth Rally in Miri,Sarawak.NICE!👍

So,in the seminar they showed us things related to purity of body.I know PMS can lose your virginity but how about masturbation?and looking at pornography?Do you lose your virginity?

Thank you for your posts and God bless you.😃
 
BintuluChuchGuy said:
Hello everyone,Just went back from a LSS programme,Im feeling great and cant wait to get confirmed on 12 Sept 2010.And this is just after the Father Stan’s and Bob Rice Youth Rally in Miri,Sarawak.NICE!👍

So,in the seminar they showed us things related to purity of body.I know PMS can lose your virginity but how about masturbation?and looking at pornography?Do you lose your virginity?

Thank you for your posts and God bless you.😃
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you can only lose your virginity through sex…a virgin is one who hasnt had sex…
 
The two elements of virginity are the material and formal. The first being the absence in the pst and present of all complete and voluntary delectation; through lust or marraige; and the second being the firm resolution to abstain forever from sexual pleasure.

However, it can be remarked that material virginity is not nessecarily destroyed by all sins against the sixth or ninth commandment; yet on the other hand the formal resolution of virginity extends beyond preserving integrity.

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I know I’m being too simplistic on this answer:

One does not lose virginity… It is given away or stolen.

Most of the time it is given… The preferred way would be to a spouse on the wedding night.

Not preferred would be to give it away outside of marriage…

It is stolen through rape or abuse… (abuse being a form of rape by a person having authority over the other person.)
 
I think it should be made crystal clear, and emphasised, that if someone is raped, they may have lost their physical vrginity, but they retain their purity.

The damage done by rape is a physical injury just as much as being hit over the head or stabbed. It does not affect the heart’s intentions. A virgin remains a virgin in her heart even after rape.
 
I find it preplexing that people say they “lost” their virginity. How can they loose it? They know exactly where they left it!!!

I perfer to look at it being “shared” on the wedding night as opposed to “given away”.

“Given away” sounds too much like you’re trying to get rid of something second hand or not wanted or something.
 
vera_dicere said:
I find it preplexing that people say they “lost” their virginity. How can they loose it? They know exactly where they left it!!!

I perfer to look at it being “shared” on the wedding night as opposed to “given away”.

“Given away” sounds too much like you’re trying to get rid of something second hand or not wanted or something.
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How about “thrown away”, “discarded”. “trashed”, when “the deed” is done outside of marriage.

For someone whos a virgin on the wedding day, its a gift given to the newlywed spouse. Given; not “given away”. So, it`s not “lost”.
 
Menstruation doesn’t take away your virginity. Maybe you were thinking of the hymen breaking?
 
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