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LilyM
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Tosh. I love you as a brother but I wouldn’t take over your debts for you or raise your children like they were my own, I simply don’t have the resources to do either.While I understand the “ick” factor, I encourage you to think on this. What you see…this is humanity. This is the Body of Christ. This is the Church, the people for whom Christ came to live and die for. This is the communion of believers…the old, the feeble, the young, the ill, the revererant, and those who don’t quite “get it” yet. This is what people are committing to when they take the bread and drink the cup, not to turn away from this people, this Body of Christ.
Drinking from a mutual cup is a strong symbol, it shows a deep and willing trust and commitment to join our lot with those with whom we share the common cup.
It is not surprise, or coincidence that many times the reason people don’t share the cup is that they are not willing to “share” whatever misfortunes might be concealed there. That is one of the symbols of cup sharing. We know the danger and the risk, but we decide to take it as our own. We say to the community, your lot is my lot, we are one.
I am not trying to denigrate anyone who for any reason chooses not to take the cup. I just wanted to share some of that symbolism, and offer something to think about.
Sometimes we offhandedly say “church family”, but haven’t truly taken that on in our hearts and souls. We use the term “communion”, but still hold back, would rather not sit behind THAT family…etc. Sometimes it is good for us to honestly explore the depth of our commitment, not merely to the institutional church, the set of teachings, but to this very earthy Body of Christ. Not just the purified Divine Body received in the Sacrament, but the less than perfect human Body which we are called to be a part of.
So why should I make myself (highy likely) seriously ill for half a week for your sake? How irresponsible to knowingly make myself unfit for all the other responsibilities I have, for the sake of some misbegotten notion of community. Children need healthy parents, bosses need healthy workers. These things are much more important than a temporary warm fuzy glow at Mass time.
What would you, I or anyone else genuinely gain by it? I’ve had more than enough serious illnesses of my own to deal with thanks, I don’t need or want yours as well. Neither does being part of the community demand it