steve-b:
In my day if an altar boy wasn’t squared away with combed hair, surplice straight and shoes highly polished, etc etc, one wasn’t allowed to go onto the altar.
I have a picture of myself at age 3. I am at the communion rail before Mass watching the altar boys lighting the candles – which was quite a ceremony in itself. Each Mass had 4-5 altar boys (thurifer, sometime a incense boat-boy, 2 lucifers and a crucifer) and as you note, they were all very squared-away.
How did they do it? Just more effort and greater expectations back then I suppose.
I look at that photo when people make excuses for altar girls, slovenly dress in the sanctuary, etc. It makes me realize just how coarse and utilitarian (at least locally) society has become – including inside the sanctuary.