I find it extremely discouraging to read some of the nasty, snide comments that people make about each other in this Section of the Board. It breaks my heart to see such childishness. Are we Don Rickles here? Or Phylis Diller? But it’s not funny when it’s done off a stage.
Some of the posters excuse themselves by saying that they are just being sarcastic, and that Jesus was sarcastic, too. But Jesus died for the ones that He was sarcastic toward.
If all the Catholics I knew were like some of the mean people in this Section, I would probably leave the Catholic Church. Yes, I love the Lord, but I have to live with His people. No wonder so many Protestants are opting for “churches of one.” A human being can only take so much scourging before they die.
I would be ashamed to invite Protestant friends of mine to come to Catholic Forums and discover this Section of the Board. They would use this Section of the Board to prove that Catholics are just as divided among themselves as Protestants.
I’ll be honest–after spending several months visiting this Section of the Board and listening to the Traditionalists, I have no interest whatsoever in ever attending a TLM. I wish I could just ignore all the nasty people, but I can’t. I know that there are plenty of nice TLMers, but I can’t get past the nasty ones.
I happen to know a couple of those TLMers in my city, and they seem just as unfriendly and judgmental as the nasty people in this section of CAF. The only reason I would attend a TLM at this point in my life is if it was the only option available to receive Our Lord in the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass, or if the Pope eliminated NO. But then all of the “nice” Catholics would be at the TLM, too, and we would outnumber the mean people!
I think that this Section should be allowed to continue, but with a very pronounced WARNING about potentially divisive threads. And no one should be allowed to visit this section who is not a Catholic. It’s too hurtful.