Help me out here. When we had our infant son baptized in 2007, we had no baptismal preparation. It was a very small parish (yes, diocesan, not some SSPX or “independent chapel”) and the pastor, in his comments immediately prior to the ceremony, told us something to the effect of “from what I know of the two of you, I have every reason to think your son will be raised as a faithful Catholic”. In other words, it was a kind of personal recognizance. The pastor was well aware of the work we had done to bring a diocesan Latin Mass to town (which has now been discontinued), and we had donated a lot of books and videotapes to the parish mini-library (large bookshelf in the vestibule), so we were obviously not religious illiterates. The parish skewed elderly and there were very few babies baptized from the parish, so I don’t know what other parents did.The failure of a Catholic parent to promptly baptize his or her baby is a possible sin of omission on behalf of the parent, though I will say that the Church does not make it easy for babies who are not in danger of death to be speedily baptized nowadays (as shown by lengthy times for baptismal prep and the delay of a lot of infant baptisms during COVID shutdowns). The baby should not be made to suffer in either case, and I don’t believe God would do that.
Is there, in fact, some kind of “mini-RCIA”-type baptismal preparation for parents, and did this pastor just “let us slide” because he presumed we already knew everything that would be taught? What does it consist of, and how long is it?