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HolySpirit08
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I know this question has been posted before but I can’t remember the answer nor am I able to find it here.
Thanks much.
Thanks much.
Only if its sufficiently late in the afternooon.I know this question has been posted before but I can’t remember the answer nor am I able to find it here.
Thanks much.
I am so very sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. We’ve been this route twice fairly recently, and I understand how difficult this has been.[edited]We were exhausted yesterday late yesterday afternoon after two weeks of watching our father die, making funeral arrangements, taking care of legalities, taking care of our sobbing mother for four 2a.m. - 6:30 a.m. days, attending our father’s funeral yesterday morning, driving a long distance to his burial and hosting a luncheon for 100 people afterwards. I was asking the question because my parents always attend the 5pm vigil mass and we had two hours to try and recouperate, shower and attend mass. [edited] we are attending the 7a.m. mass today and have another 50 people over for a thankyou luncheon today.
A Mass is a Mass is a Mass, though timing seems to be the key. (I have never encountered a late Saturday funeral Mass, however, due to the parish Saturday afternoon/evening Masses.)However, funeral Masses celebrated late afternoon on a Saturday are very, very rare indeed, unless the cremains are present. Non-Christian denominations may have late afternoon, early evening funerals, but, I do not believe that these happen in the Church. The only one that I know of was when the Focolare foundress died and her funeral Mass was celebrated on a weekday at 5:30PM Roman time at St. Paul’s Outside the Walls.
Furthermore, funeral Masses are not celebrated on Sundays, and, any time 4PM and after on a Saturday is already considered Sunday by the Church.
However, I think that there is a difference between a funeral Mass and a wedding Mass as far as the fulfilment of the Sunday obligation is concerned.
Even if the funeral was too early to satisfy the Sunday obligation, I think the factors you note would justify you in asking the pastor to be excused from the obligation.. . . We were exhausted yesterday late yesterday afternoon after two weeks of watching our father die, making funeral arrangements, taking care of legalities, taking care of our sobbing mother for four 2a.m. - 6:30 a.m. days, attending our father’s funeral yesterday morning, driving a long distance to his burial and hosting a luncheon for 100 people afterwards. I was asking the question because my parents always attend the 5pm vigil mass and we had two hours to try and recouperate, shower and attend mass. . . …
+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++I know this question has been posted before but I can’t remember the answer nor am I able to find it here.
Thanks much.
My thoughts exactly.You certainly can’t be expected to go to Mass two days running, now can you?
That would be totally unreasonable.