I am a bit confused about the terms, “outside of prayer time” and “during prayer time”. Perhaps to clarify would clear this up a bit. For me, I awake with the love of Jesus and His Praise already in my mind, and I speak immediately to Him. Throughout the day, I speak in my heart to Him. During my daily occupations, I do them with Him. And, then there are formal times of Prayer for the Rosary or Liturgy of the Hours that I pray with Him…so, when is the time I am actually “outside of prayer”? If I want to read, for guidance or learning, and I am feeling His Presence so close, what can a book do that He is not doing Himself???
I am asking this most humbly, please know that. I am genuinely confused here. Bless you all as you try to assist me. Thank you.
Here are some dictionary definitions which may help. There are tons of brilliant books on this important subject.
MENTAL PRAYER. The form of prayer in which the sentiments expressed are one’s own and not those of another person and the expression of these sentiments is mainly, if not entirely, interior and not externalized. Mental prayer is accomplished by internal acts of the mind and affections and is either simple meditation or contemplation. As meditation, it is a loving and discursive (reflective) consideration of religious truths or some mystery of faith. As contemplation, it is a loving and intuitive (immediately perceptive) consideration and admiration of the same truths or mysteries of faith. In mental prayer the three powers of the soul are engaged: the memory, which offers the mind material for meditation or contemplation; the intellect, which ponders or directly perceives the meaning of some religious truth and its implications for practice; and the will, which freely expresses its sentiments of faith, trust, and love, and (as needed) makes good resolutions based on what the memory and intellect have made known to the will.
CONTEMPLATION. The enjoyable admiration of perceived truth (St. Augustine). Elevation of mind resting on God (St. Bernard). Simple intuition of divine truth that produces love (St. Thomas). (Etym. Latin
contemplatio, simple gazing of the mind at manifest truth; from
con-, with +
templum, open space for observation [by augurs]:
contemplari, to observe, consider.)
CONTEMPLATIVE PRAYER. In general, that form of mental prayer in which the affective sentiments of the will predominate, as distinct from discursive reflections of the mind. Or again, it is that prayer which looks at God by contemplating and adoring his attributes more than by asking him for favors or thanking him for graces received.
CONTEMPLATIVE LIFE. Human life insofar as it is occupied with God and things of the spirit. Compared with the active life, it stresses prayer and self-denial as a means of growing in the knowledge and love of God. As a form of religious life, it identifies “institutes which are entirely ordered towards contemplation, in such wise that their members give themselves over to God alone in solitude and silence, in constant prayer and willing penance” (
Perfectae Caritatis, 7).