Does my brother need an annulment?

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My brother was Baptized catholic but never did anything else with Catholicism. He married not in a church. He is now divorcing and I’m wondering if the church would even consider his marriage and if he needs an annulment
 
My brother was Baptized catholic but never did anything else with Catholicism. He married not in a church. He is now divorcing and I’m wondering if the church would even consider his marriage and if he needs an annulment
The Church would take the position that your brother, as a baptized Catholic, is required to marry in the Catholic form. Going by only the information you have provided, it sounds as if the Church would consider your brother’s marriage to be invalid due to lack of form. Therefore, a full-blown annulment would not be required. That said, there may be other circumstances that we don’t know about that would change this conclusion. Your best source of information would be your priest.

Final thought: Since your brother has had nothing to do with the Church since his baptism, which I’m assuming he can’t even remember, I suspect that he couldn’t care less about how the Church regards his marriage.
 
The Church would take the position that your brother, as a baptized Catholic, is required to marry in the Catholic form. Going by only the information you have provided, it sounds as if the Church would consider your brother’s marriage to be invalid due to lack of form. Therefore, a full-blown annulment would not be required. That said, there may be other circumstances that we don’t know about that would change this conclusion. Your best source of information would be your priest.

Final thought: Since your brother has had nothing to do with the Church since his baptism, which I’m assuming he can’t even remember, I suspect that he couldn’t care less about how the Church regards his marriage.
oh ok. His wedding was on top of the stratosphere in Las Vegas so it definitely wasn’t the catholic form. Im slowly bringing him back to the church and was wondering just incase he marries a catholic in the future
 
oh ok. His wedding was on top of the stratosphere in Las Vegas so it definitely wasn’t the catholic form. Im slowly bringing him back to the church and was wondering just incase he marries a catholic in the future
Gotcha. Best of luck with that. 👍
 
My brother was Baptized catholic but never did anything else with Catholicism. He married not in a church. He is now divorcing and I’m wondering if the church would even consider his marriage and if he needs an annulment
You’d definitely want to talk to a priest of your (well actually, his if they’re different) diocese about this. I think the requirements for what happens for a “lack of form” vary from diocese to diocese. Some places you don’t have to do much, but in others you have to fill in paperwork and send it in and get a declaration of lack of form. Even in the latter case, it’s nothing like as complicated as the annulment process and usually takes less than two months. However, IIRC, thy may ask questions on the paperwork like “Have you ever officially joined a non-Catholic church?” and “Have you ever publicly declared yourself an atheist?” I have no idea what happens if you say yes, but it might complicate the process.

God bless your efforts to bring your brother Home!

–Jen
 
oh ok. His wedding was on top of the stratosphere in Las Vegas so it definitely wasn’t the catholic form. Im slowly bringing him back to the church and was wondering just incase he marries a catholic in the future
Do you pray for your brother every day? Pray the Rosary and ask Mary to lead your brother back to Christ. If you show your brother your love of God and your love for him then the grace of his Baptism will raise the spark of the indwelling Holy Spirit to the flames of Christ’s Passion that will engulf him.

Of course, you may want to get him to a general confession if you have not already helped him to find the weight of his sins lifted from his soul in Reconciliation before a priest. How wonderful is the mercy of Christ in His Church and Sacraments. All glory and honor to you, Lord Jesus Christ!

I will remember you in my prayers as I do at this moment.
Our Father who is in Heaven hallowed be your name. Your Kingdom come, your will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us, and lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil.
Hail Mary, full of grace the Lord is with you. Blessed are you among women and blessed is the fruit of your womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen.
 
Oh thank you guys so much. Yes I pray all the time for him. I appreciate all of your help and prayers
 
My little brother (who is planning on getting divorced) is in the air force deployed to Afghanistan and I sent him a rosary not sure how he would take it but he actually keeps ot hanging over his bed so I think this is a good sign. I also taught him st Michaels prayer.
 
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