So what you are basically saying is that it does not matter what the Church tells you as a teaching, you have to obey in either way. You are only forced to believe in level 1 and 2, but you have to obey in every case (infallible teachings as well as fallible teachings).
Do you have examples as to what each group means? Level 1 is obviously concerning dogma, something that can be easily found on the internet. What are examples for level 2, infallible, but not a dogma? What are examples for levels 3 and 4, things you do not have to believe, but that require your obedience anyway?
I specifically asked a
few priests about this, and they
all said this all was a misinterpretation by people. He said you have to believe in actual dogma. But you can disagree with other things, but must obey them. Then there are other things you have to look at with a clear conscience.
For example, I told him that I would like it if women were ordained, but that I know the Pope said it’s not going to happen. So I disagree with it, but I don’t fight about it. I accept that it’s a teaching, but disagree with it, and disagree with the rationale and reasons behind it. But I do not picket, encourage people to go against the pope, etc. He specifically said I was not sinning and could have communion because I wasn’t doing anything wrong or sinning.
I told him I had a problem with this Absolutism and “sin of relativity” that I hear about here on this forum. I told him I believe that people form their beliefs, values and morals from their sorroundings and that I’ve always respected the choices people make for themselves and that I will not condemn people for their choices (for example, abortion, or whatever). I told him that I do NOT believe in aboriton for me, it wouldn’t be an option for me. But that I have a problem telling a noncatholic or nonpracticing catholic what they should or shouldn’t do or “wind up in hell for it”. My priests have said that we, as catholics, have the obligation to make a person understand the rules of the Church and after that, it’s their choice and we are not to penalize them or treat them any different. They have the right to make their own choices. He said I was not sinning and could have communion for the way I felt.
Now, even though we believe that a person has the right and autonomay that enables them to make a bad choice (let’s continue to use abortion as an example), and we have told them the truth and they still do it anyway, we don’t condemn them, but treat them as we always have. We are not sinning by supporting them as individuals with individual rights. However, we are not allowed to participate in it in any way, such as being a nurse in an abortion clinic, helping someone pay for it, driving someone to the clinic, being one of those escorts to help them to get into one, etc. But we are not sinning by saying, “ok, I’ve told you it was wrong according to the Church, why it was wrong according to the Church, gave you other options, I think I’ve talked myself blue in the face trying to help you, but it’s your choice, and I still value you as a person, and I’ll always be here when you need me”. Get the difference?
The same goes for contraceptives. You can talk yourself blue in the face about the pros and cons of all sorts of birth control methods. If, in the end, the person makes the wrong choice, all you can do is pray for them and say, “Ok, that’s your choice. I don’t agree with you at all, but you have the right to make your choice. It’s a bad choice, but it’s your choice and I’ll be here if you need me”. That’s not sinning. You’re not going to get anywhere badgering a non-practicing Catholic. That will only push them further and foster resentment. What you can do is lead by example, and be consistent with teaching, and hope one day they will change their mind.
I asked him about voting. Some of the folks here on CAF have told me in previous posts that basically we have to vote the way the Church tells us to, or we are sinning and can’t go to Communion until we go to confession. My priests have told me that isn’t so. They all said that the Church makes recommendations and guides one, but in the end, it’s ONE’S own decision based on many factors not just one. If I voted for a candidate that the Church didn’t approve of, if I voted because I thought the candidtate was best for the job, that I was not sinning. If I voted specifically and only because a candidate agreed with something I agreed with but that the Church didn’t approve of, not considering other factors, then
that was a sin.
All of the priests I talk to can’t be collectively wrong. I rather think there are a few radicals making a whole bunch of noise on a forum. Like us, they are following their conscience. We all are responsible for following our conscience and doing what we believe is right.