This is a never ending argument so why bother trying to win?
Sometimes bowing out is the best route to take if you wish to foster peace.
The next time the topic comes up, if it gets too heated, just change the subject to something both of you will enjoy. Have a great day. If people are capable of loving and appreciating one another, the issue of the bible isn’t that relevant because they already understand most of it’s teachings anyway.
I myself see the bible as a book with specific personal messages intended personally for each of us. Unfortunately most religions teach that it can’t be interpreted properly without specific instructors assigned by church leaders – only from their own organization of course.
Because the bible can be interpreted in so many different ways, religions have divided themselves to the point where they have become so competitive they actually enjoy destroying one another. Numerous religious groups love nothing more than promoting the idea that others outside of their circle are somehow ignorant, stupid, uneducated, confused, or lesser beings void of spirituality.
The whole thing is about little more than trying seize bragging rights that one religion has more access to God than another. Does that sound like the type of humble and understanding behavior Jesus would’ve taught?
In my eyes, such beliefs are basically little more than extremely destructive fanaticism. Over the centuries, these types of beliefs have resulted in millions of brutal and very ugly murders by so-called “religious people.” This type of behaviour will continue until humanity finally evolves to the point where they realize how foolish all of this is.
I believe everyone was born with a most unique and special gift called “instinct” that lets us know, by sending our brains a unique type of euphoria, that we have done something we truthfully are aware will promote a better, less selfish, less physical, and more spiritual world.