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TLara
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When people realize that when you use birth control pills you are having regular abortions maybe they will understand why the church teaches what it does!!! When a married man and woman come together as one they are renewing the marriage covenant with God, to use condoms, etc… means you have a lack of faith in our creator to provide all things that are nessaccery for you. When you learn to accept and love God on his terms and not on yours you’ll understand.It is not murder, at least in this country and in most of the world. Pejorative words do not help the discussion.
The point is somebody’s rights are going to be violated. We have so far opted that the functioning adult is to be preferred up to a point in this difficult issue.
To suggest that the situation is a sad one, and that abortion is a cruel and unhappy choice is true. To rant convinces no one, and simply fans the flames of extremism and causes people to go out and do things which land them in prison as common criminals themselves.
The unfortunate thing is that present Catholic teaching against birth control leaves the Church with virtually no alternative to help women in need other than to offer to support their pregnancy and take the child. Such is not a solution for many. Would that we could offer people safer and better means to avoid pregnancy when they are not ready for that responsibility. We cannot of course, since we have gotten into such a silly mess regarding birth control. The so-called natural method is but a pretense. It’s just birth control with a new name. And sadly, not nearly effective enough to be used by all.