S
SpiritMeadow
Guest
Doing quite well thanks. I just needed a good emmersion in reality and needed to get away from this strange place.=Neil_Anthony;3459755]Dear SpiritMeadow,
I haven’t seen you post for a while. I hope you’ve been doing well.
I do think its very suseptible to being looked at as purely a human rights issue. But it is unusual in that to save one you can and often do do significant harm to another at the same time. This is the dilemma. It is why the courts struggled with the concept of personhood, and ended up calling it “potential life”. I see the Roe v. Wade thing as mostly a deep struggle to come to grips with a very difficult issue. I am loathe to substitute my personal beliefs here. Perhaps some day, and I believe it will happen, such things will not occur because all agree that it is not necessary. All children will be welcomed to a world community. Pregnancy no doubt will occur when it is desired and at no other time. But we must work with imperfect beings at the present.I’ve been wondering for ages why people call this a religious issue, when to me it’s always been a human rights issue. Thanks for explaining that… I guess some people think its about whether a fetus has a soul? Of course then it would be wrong to impose our unproven ideas upon others in the form of laws. I think many of us who support abortion laws support them because we want embryonic people to be protected… mainly because we’re all very happy that we were not killed in the womb and we don’t think its fair for other’s lives to be cut off before they even get to experience life. That’s why we think it belongs in the realm of law… not just because of religious theories about a soul.
I doubt there is a good deal one can extract from some numbers. Obviously there are nearly as many different situations as there are abortions. The whole range of desire for one to no other choice is surely met. But I do conclude, I believe that in the end this is a woman’s decision. My husband does not agree I can assure you. Every means to support women in ending the need for abortion should be worked toward.It’s so painful to read this, that people will think that I oppose abortion because I do not trust women to make their own decisionsIn fact I think it is men who often want their girlfriend to get the abortion… Also part of why some men are so shocked by abortion is that we hold such a high view of women that it’s literally stunning to conceive of a woman wanting an abortion. I suspect few women really want them, but feel they have no choice. I think a vulnerable woman would have a lot easier time refusing to listen to a controlling husband/boyfriend ordering her to get an abortion if it was illegal… I hope anyway.
AgreedI have to add that it isn’t only a moral choice faced by women. It’s very scary for a man to find out that the woman he doesn’t really love might be pregnant by him. Of course not as scary as it is for the woman, but the temptation to do something wrong is there for the man too… in his case the temptation to encourage her to do the wrong thing. It’s not right to compare this to the situation a woman is in when pregnant, but still, don’t think that men will never face the moral dilemma at all.