Does your spouse/gf/bf post on CAF?

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I made my DH join a few days ago because he wanted to post and I didn’t want him to use my login
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We don’t see eye to eye on somethings 🤷 When will he learn that I am right! 😉
 
My DH is the one who got me to sign up here. He reads more of the apologetics stuff than I do, but sometimes he’ll ask me something about what I posted. For some reason, I think that’s kind of weird :o
 
KJLSchneider said:
My DH is the one who got me to sign up here. He reads more of the apologetics stuff than I do, but sometimes he’ll ask me something about what I posted. For some reason, I think that’s kind of weird :o
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what do you mean…?
 
catholic79 said:
Does your father know about Hubby and boyfriend?? 😃
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HAHA I just read what i wrote. Sadly no Husband or boyfriend for this poster. I would like one though so if anyone knows and single catholic men over 30 then please let me know!
 
My husband doesn’t post but he lurks around reading my posts. Since he’s deployed he says it’s a way for him to know what I’m thinking about. Hi Honey!!!
 
beckers said:
HAHA I just read what i wrote. Sadly no Husband or boyfriend for this poster. I would like one though so if anyone knows and single catholic men over 30 then please let me know!
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Why over 30?
 
My bf doesn’t post on CAF - he doesn’t have a computer at home or work. He knows that I am reading about Catholicism on the net, but he doesn’t know where or to what extent. I’m a little shy about telling him, actually. I’m not sure why. Maybe because I’ve posted threads about him! 😊

Mostly I’m shy about telling him what I post here because I haven’t decided if I’m going to convert yet, and I want to make the decision myself, not just because it would make him happy. Learning more about his faith helps me understand him, and I can have a better idea of what he believes and why. I just don’t want to be pressured about converting - I want to do it in my own time. Now he knows I’m investigating the Faith, he is letting me do it my way.

Maybe once we get engaged or married, I’ll show him CAF and see what he thinks - but then I might have to stop writing about him!
 
whatevergirl said:
My husband is thinking about joining here…Just curious how many posters’ spouses/girlfriends/boyfriends are members of CAF, and post here, as well? And if not–has he/she thought of joining?🙂
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:hmmm: Can I get back to you? (ha ha!!!) Just kidding.

You know about us.

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Shhhh don’t tell the others.
 
armywife said:
My husband doesn’t post but he lurks around reading my posts. Since he’s deployed he says it’s a way for him to know what I’m thinking about. Hi Honey!!!
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That’s so sweet. ❤️

My hubby only lurks if it’s up on the computer screen. I wish he’d read my posts to know what I’m thinking about without my having to tell him. I talk with him about threads here from time to time, but he generally doesn’t want to discuss them. I discussed this thread and asked him more about his thoughts on CAF last night. He said he thinks of this place as my own “private world”; he partly wants to give me my own space, but he also thinks this type of internet communication is rather strange and generally a waste of time.

I confess that I can waste a lot of time formulating my thoughts as I post; I wish my hubby would read some of my posts on his own so it wouldn’t be so much a waste of my time. I used to sometimes read post that sound a bit like him and wonder, “Is that you, honey?” However, after talking with him last night, I learned he doesn’t know how to access this site or my posts if I don’t leave it up on the screen. How strange it is to realize that because I’m a bit of a technophobe while my hubby is highly skilled as technology and computers. My family’s other “computer experts” (aka teenage boys) occassionally read posts I leave up on the screen too. Contrary to my husband’s opinion, I never regard this site as my own “private world”–I am well aware that people I know–and don’t know–can read the thoughts I post here. I wish my hubby was one of the people reading my thoughts here.
 
My fiance used to post here but is too busy now and was actually turned off by a few threads. :confused: But I do often talk of my CAF friends so he knows my pals. 👍

CAF is a special place as we met here via another poster.
 
beckers said:
I just like older men.
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Nothing wrong with that…my husband is nearly 11 years my senior…but, ya never know…there might be someone around your age lurking on this board…who would be perfect for you.🙂
 
whatevergirl said:
what is a dying day rich Catholic? ha Dying day?:o
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Well if she finds are rich older Catholic who dies then she can marry a poor Young Catholic. Hopefully with all that money she’ll take care of her parents in their old age
 
lizaanne said:
DH was - but he was banned for having an opinion. 🙂

~Liza
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:eek: oh no! I’m afraid this might happen to my dh…He sometimes can be too direct/blunt–and not meaning to, can offend. (and that’s just with me) lol:D 😉 I can only imagine with strangers. But, he said he would try his hardest, if he joins, to not offend. 🙂
 
estesbob said:
Well if she finds are rich older Catholic who dies then she can marry a poor Young Catholic. Hopefully with all that money she’ll take care of her parents in their old age
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I see–you have really thought this out, bob.😃 😛 🙂
 
whatevergirl said:
:eek: oh no! I’m afraid this might happen to my dh…He sometimes can be too direct/blunt–and not meaning to, can offend. (and that’s just with me) lol:D 😉 I can only imagine with strangers. But, he said he would try his hardest, if he joins, to not offend. 🙂
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Have him get ahold of me and I can teach him how to be sweet and tactful.
 
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