Don’t dare to speak its name

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thistle:
Okay. Thanks.
On a separate issue isn’t taking on married priests then a double standard when the Church is adament about priests not only being celibate but also single? How do you reconcile married priests and no celibacy with the Church’s Doctrine on single and celibate?
It’s not a doctrine but a discipline for which the Church has provided (or attempted to provide, depending on your view) a rationale in the case of the Latin Church. Almost all of the Eastern Catholic Churches permit married men to be ordained priests.
 
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cameron_lansing:
It’s not a doctrine but a discipline for which the Church has provided (or attempted to provide, depending on your view) a rationale in the case of the Latin Church. Almost all of the Eastern Catholic Churches permit married men to be ordained priests.
Am I correct in thinking that a discipline can be changed? Conceptually the Church shouldn’t have a problem allowing married priests in general if they accept same from conversions from other denominations.
Wouldn’t this also help the fix the shortage of priests?
 
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thistle:
Am I correct in thinking that a discipline can be changed? Conceptually the Church shouldn’t have a problem allowing married priests in general if they accept same from conversions from other denominations.
Wouldn’t this also help the fix the shortage of priests?
While a discipline can be changed, such changes are not normally done without broad and extensive consultation and sometimes not a little institutional anguish about the implications.
The Pastoral Provision under which relatively few Episcopal priests and Lutheran pastors have been eventually admitted to Latin Catholic priesthood is seen as a gracious concession and customarily emphasized as an extraordinary exception. The attitude of a recently admitted priest from the Anglican tradition at pastoralprovision.org/news.html may be illustrative.
The Roman Church has a long practice of allowing exceptions without transforming them into general principles.
 
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thistle:
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Wouldn’t this also help the fix the shortage of priests?
Iffy at best.

The Eastern Churches and those Protestant denom that have married clergy are not exactly awash in Vocations either 😉
 
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MikeWM:
So watch them closely. If they so something wrong, jump on them. In the meantime trust your parental instincts, they are generally pretty good.
Oh it’s not my girls that my hubby doesn’t trust, it’s the men around them. Or the women. We were surprised to find that there are three women on the Sexual Offender’s list in our neighborhood. The world is weird, not the children.
Convenient to scapegoat the homosexuals for the ‘greedy people’ rather than blame the greedy people though, isn’t it?
The church would not have to deal with greedy people if they had no basis to bring suit. We can’t do anything to prevent the greedy people but lessen the chance that they can bring suit.
At their age? I don’t think 5 or 7 year olds think like that at all 🙂 And when they are older - well, there are a lot more potential worries.
Again, the focus is not on the innocent children.
By that do you mean you think I am homosexual and/or am thinking of becoming a priest? :confused:
Actually, I thought of neither. I thought you cared deeply about someone with Homosexual tendencies or who wanted to be a priest. A brother or cousin?
Well, he is sure going to succeed in reducing the number of priests at this rate 😦
My best friend in grade school had an older brother who left the seminary because of the homosexuals there. He spoke little about it except to those extremely close to him. He is now a Deacon.
Many good young men go there and leave. Without the Homosexuals there, you may be surprised how many will go and stay.
You can’t be a priest for a good reason. You are a woman. The reasons for women not being priests are comprehensive and detailed and make some sense, whether you agree with them or not. The reasons for this make no sense except as either a knee-jerk reaction to the sex scandal, which I can’t support, or as genuine discrimination against homosexual people for their unconscious thoughts alone, which I can’t support either.
How do you think that the Vatican will be able to tell whether a man is Homosexual? Women are pretty easy to check on.
 
netmil(name removed by moderator):
Oh it’s not my girls that my hubby doesn’t trust, it’s the men around them. Or the women. We were surprised to find that there are three women on the Sexual Offender’s list in our neighborhood. The world is weird, not the children.
I’m never quite convinced that knowing that kind of information is useful - but yes, there are bad people around.
The church would not have to deal with greedy people if they had no basis to bring suit. We can’t do anything to prevent the greedy people but lessen the chance that they can bring suit.
Fine - weed out the people who aren’t going to stick to celibacy, not a group of people who have varying degrees of commitment to celibacy. The Church should do what is right, not what is expedient.
Actually, I thought of neither. I thought you cared deeply about someone with Homosexual tendencies or who wanted to be a priest. A brother or cousin?
No, actually I don’t know anyone who is both homosexual and wants to be a priest, though I know people who fit into both categories.
My best friend in grade school had an older brother who left the seminary because of the homosexuals there. He spoke little about it except to those extremely close to him. He is now a Deacon.
Many good young men go there and leave. Without the Homosexuals there, you may be surprised how many will go and stay.
I’m not sure I want people to be priests who can’t live in a seminary with people who are homosexual, to be frank. What are they afraid of? Now if they are practising homosexuals, then fair enough - but then they should be thrown out of the seminary anyway.
How do you think that the Vatican will be able to tell whether a man is Homosexual? Women are pretty easy to check on.
I assume they are going to ask them, leaving them the unenviable option of either lying or giving up their vocation.

Mike
 
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MikeWM:
Yes, testing and assessment. People aren’t automatically discounted, their experiences are assessed and then indeed may come down on the side of caution. It is the blanket nature of this issue that troubles me.

Mike
If they are found to have a very serious psychological disorder, the policy is they are discounted. That is what the testing and assessment is for. The blanket nature of the issue is that SSA is a very serious disorder, period. There is no need to test or assess people who have SSA to ascertain if a serious disorder exists. SSA is a serious disorder, a priori of their experiences, etc. There is no gray here, SAA is never “not disordered”, it is always disordered. This is why it has been determined that people with SSA should not be admitted to the priesthood.
 
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MikeWM:
I’m not sure I want people to be priests who can’t live in a seminary with people who are homosexual, to be frank. What are they afraid of? Now if they are practising homosexuals, then fair enough - but then they should be thrown out of the seminary anyway.
They were practicing. It was open.
I really think that this is what the church is trying to weed out.

I’m not sure that they are kicking potential priests out who have homosexual tendencies. Rather, anyone openly homosexual (either proclaiming it as a lifestyle choice available in the church) or practicing. Either one is a good reason to not be a priest.

Perhaps I’m wrong and you can give me a reference to How they will screen out Homosexuals.
 
netmil(name removed by moderator):
They were practicing. It was open.
I really think that this is what the church is trying to weed out.
Fine, they should have been kicked out. There is no place for sex of any type in the seminary or the priesthood.
I’m not sure that they are kicking potential priests out who have homosexual tendencies. Rather, anyone openly homosexual (either proclaiming it as a lifestyle choice available in the church) or practicing. Either one is a good reason to not be a priest.
Agreed, and if this was all that the Vatican meant I have no problem with it at all.
Perhaps I’m wrong and you can give me a reference to How they will screen out Homosexuals.
The impression I got, and certainly others have too, is that no matter how well people hid their sexuality (which they should - why should you know the sexuality of a priest? Why does it matter?) they were going to be asked straight out about it, the same as they are asked about seeing visions etc. right now, with automatic disqualification for anyone homosexual.

Thus leaving people with homosexual thoughts, no matter how strong their call to the priesthood and to celibacy were over those thoughts, in the position of having to lie or automatically not be allowed to become a priest.

That’s the crux of my problem with this. I think homosexual people are just as capable of celibacy and chastity as heterosexual people, and each case should be decided on its merits, not a blanket ban.

Mike
 
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Hildebrand:
The blanket nature of the issue is that SSA is a very serious disorder, period.
Is that what the majority of psychologists say?

Mike
 
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MikeWM:
The impression I got, and certainly others have too, is that no matter how well people hid their sexuality (which they should - why should you know the sexuality of a priest? Why does it matter?) they were going to be asked straight out about it, the same as they are asked about seeing visions etc. right now, with automatic disqualification for anyone homosexual.

Thus leaving people with homosexual thoughts, no matter how strong their call to the priesthood and to celibacy were over those thoughts, in the position of having to lie or automatically not be allowed to become a priest.
In my opinion, until I read elsewhere, I think they are sounding VERY harsh to strike fear into Priests like this…
boston.com/news/local/massachusetts/articles/2005/09/29/priest_pulled_from_mass_after_refusing_to_support_anti_gay_marriage_push/
 
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MikeWM:
Is that what the majority of psychologists say?

Mike
They used to say it.

Just like many protestant denominations were once against artificial birth control.

Just as you could once get scientists and doctors to say the unborn child is a human being.

But all of this does not matter, the Church deems it to be disordered and always disordered, end of story.
 
I am very, very glad to see that the Vatican is finally coming down on this issue and enforcing the rule of no homosexuals in the seminary, and subsequently the priesthood.

As one who found himself in a “Goodbye Good Men” situation (an orthodox catholic who was dismissed from seminary for being heterosexual and orthodox, and after extreme harassment by homosexuals and radical feminists in the system), I can now praise God and be thankful that future young men will not go through what I went through.
 
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mercygate:
From this article:

The bishops have much to answer for in moving offenders from place to place, but if the offenders had not offended in the first place, the bishops would not have been placed in the position of having to deal with them. Shifting the blame to the bishops takes the spotlight off the perpetrators.
The *Tablet *article is speculative junk.
The Bishops cannot pass the buck! They chose “not to deal” with a very grave situation. They were confronted by sin committed by priests that they were entrusted to manage. Instead of addressing the situation like preventing such priests from remaining priests, but rather moving them some where else so that they would become another bishops problem did nothing to solve the problem. In fact it only exacerbated the situation.

The perpretrators have brought shame on the Catholic Church, but so too have the bishops.
 
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MikeWM:
Is that what the majority of psychologists say?

Mike
I don’t think you are going to find many posters here with much, or any, experience in the mental health professions. As I posted elsewhere - “SSA” is fictional disorder. It is entirely made up. “SSA” is not in the psychiatric literature. In all major mental health and medical professional associations characterize homosexuality as a naturally occuring varient of human sexuality.

clgs.org/5/5_6_3.html
apa.org/pi/lgbc/publications/justthefacts.html
religioustolerance.org/hom_expr.htm
apa.org/pubinfo/answers.html

A major promoter of this fiction is Paul Cameron, a disgraced psychologist kicked out of his national and state professional associations for ethics violations and falsifying data.

psychology.ucdavis.edu/rainbow/html/facts_cameron.html
qrd.org/qrd/religion/anti/cameron/medical.consequences.rebuttal2.txt
qrd.org/qrd/religion/anti/cameron/log.cabin

Most of the psuedo-scientific posts about homoseuxality that you find here are variants of Cameron’s falsified claims.
 
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MikeinSD:
I don’t think you are going to find many posters here with much, or any, experience in the mental health professions. As I posted elsewhere - “SSA” is fictional disorder. It is entirely made up. “SSA” is not in the psychiatric literature. In all major mental health and medical professional associations characterize homosexuality as a naturally occuring varient of human sexuality.

clgs.org/5/5_6_3.html
apa.org/pi/lgbc/publications/justthefacts.html
religioustolerance.org/hom_expr.htm
apa.org/pubinfo/answers.html

A major promoter of this fiction is Paul Cameron, a disgraced psychologist kicked out of his national and state professional associations for ethics violations and falsifying data.

psychology.ucdavis.edu/rainbow/html/facts_cameron.html
qrd.org/qrd/religion/anti/cameron/medical.consequences.rebuttal2.txt
qrd.org/qrd/religion/anti/cameron/log.cabin

Most of the psuedo-scientific posts about homoseuxality that you find here are variants of Cameron’s falsified claims.
The APA is a political organization. Many so-called professionals endorse all manner of perversion under the guise of science.

Birth control, intentional sterilization, abortion, transgender surgery, “gay” is normal, etc all are endorsed as “scientific”. All types of misinformed credentialed misfits claim all types of things that contradict logic, common experience and truth.
 
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MikeinSD:
I don’t think you are going to find many posters here with much, or any, experience in the mental health professions. As I posted elsewhere - “SSA” is fictional disorder. It is entirely made up. “SSA” is not in the psychiatric literature. In all major mental health and medical professional associations characterize homosexuality as a naturally occuring varient of human sexuality.
You quite simply don’t have your facts straight. Homosexuality was included in the APA’s Diagnostic and Statistical Maual of Mental Disorders until 1973, when it was removed due to internal political pressure.
 
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neophyte:
You quite simply don’t have your facts straight. Homosexuality was included in the APA’s Diagnostic and Statistical Maual of Mental Disorders until 1973, when it was removed due to internal political pressure.
I was an office manager for 2 psychiatrists and 5 therapists before I was married.
You are absolutely correct.
Same Sex Attraction was removed from the DSM (diagnostic reference for Psychiatrists) in the late 60’s.
The sucessful campaign to remove this diagnosis was waged by the (then) Head Psychiatrist of the American Psychiatric Association.
He later left his wife and children to “Come out of the Closet”.
 
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neophyte:
You quite simply don’t have your facts straight. Homosexuality was included in the APA’s Diagnostic and Statistical Maual of Mental Disorders until 1973, when it was removed due to internal political pressure.
Homosexuality was removed from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental of Disorders because it’s inclusion could not be justified by the science. I left links to APA’s policy statements. Please read them. Thanks.
 
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fix:
The APA is a political organization. Many so-called professionals endorse all manner of perversion under the guise of science.

Birth control, intentional sterilization, abortion, transgender surgery, “gay” is normal, etc all are endorsed as “scientific”. All types of misinformed credentialed misfits claim all types of things that contradict logic, common experience and truth.
APA is the national association for psychologoy. AMA is the national association for medicine. They offer the best scientific conclusions in their respective fields.
 
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