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itsjustdave1988
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As I see it, it presumes instead the wisdom of our forefathers. Even if our forefathers are fallible, it would be temerious to reject wise and time-tested counsel.… it takes for granted that we are studying errors.
In the example I was thinking of, my 15-year-old son (baptized Catholic but having doubts about his faith) had friends who claimed to be Wiccan. My boy, with a stated desire to learn more about what his friends believed checked out several books from the library on Wicca. When he brought the books home, I looked through them and decided he would not be reading through these books at this time. I explained to him that I thought that he first needed a better foundation in the Catholic faith prior to being allowed to read about Wicca, as the books he checked out from the library posed too much of a danger to his faith.
He didn’t like my answer. He thought he was smart enough to reason for himself what was true and what was false religion. He might have been. However, as the authority in my house, I thought it best to err on the side of caution. Having decades more experience, reasoning capacity, and having been exposed to much more testimony, my judgment on the matter differed from my 15-yr-old. Perhaps when he’s in college, he can study other religions. For now, he’s not yet competent in “Theology 101” and would be ill-prepared to handle “Theology 102.”
The same could be said of many adult Catholics, dependent upon their prior catechesis or preparedness (or lack of it). Jesus did not send out his disciples to evangelize on day one. He first made sure their consciences were well-formed.
For settling doubts, I asked my son to talk to me. See here:Those in the position of actually having to do this to settle doubts, as opposed to being better equipped to refute what one knows to be erroneous, don’t have this luxury.
***Letters to a teenage skeptic, *#1 , #2, #3, **#4 and #5
I wanted him to learn from my experience, my reason, and the testimonies I’ve studied, to include my mistakes.
For more mature Catholics who have solid catechesis, I would still ask them to talk to me, and their pastor, their bishop, and a spiritual advisor. However, it may be that after honestly attempting to form their own conscience, they still have doubts with regard to the Catholic religion. In such cases, I believe they likely need an “exodus” experience of their own, much like I had when I left the Church as a teenager and didn’t return until over 25 years later. Wandering in the desert wasteland to be “tempted” can do some spiritual good at times, if you can endure it.
Sometimes people need to stand at the crossroads in their lives to discern the best path for their soul. In some instances, they may feel the need to live as “prodigal sons” for a time prior to finally realizing that it is the “ancient path” and “good way” where they will find rest for their soul.
“This is what the Lord says: "Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls.” (Jer 6:16).
The path to Christ is not always a straight line. Moses wandered the desert, going away from the promised land at times before arriving at his final destination.
When in doubt, it is certainly prudent to learn from someone who has “been there, done that.” That’s part of the “testing” process. You don’t have to be a “prodigal son,” experiencing sin for oneself in order to learn. You can instead trust the testimony of former sons who were once prodigal. Testing everything is not only prudent, but commanded. It is the letting go of that which is good which is the risk, but a risk taken every time the “testing” occurs.They aren’t sure that these teachings are actually errors, and so the issue of prudence doesn’t really apply to them