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Hello all,
I’m currently a non-denominational Christian, but I have found myself increasingly drawn to Catholicism of late. I am looking for advice as to finding useful resources on the basics of Catholicism, and the details of possibly converting to Catholicism. Any suggestions are greatly welcome. Also, if anyone has advice on explaining my interest to those members of my family who are Christian, but believe that Catholics are misguided I’d really love to hear it.
Thanks! 🙂
 
Welcome ladylinguist!
You have come to a good place to find answers. Be patient and persistent with your questions. Someone is likely to come along with the correct answer or direction for you to go. Have you taken a look at the Catechism of the Catholic Church?
 
Best book for someone converting in my opinion (as someone who is currently headed in that direction myself) is Born Fundamentalist, Born Again Catholic by David Currie. Also be sure and read Scott Hahn’s conversion story (a short version available at the Coming Home Network’s website, or he and his wife’s book Rome Sweet Rome

Both of these will actually teach you a lot about the Church at the same time that it may help you understand that you are not the only one converting, and may help you explain it to your Protestant family members. I read them both from the library, but as soon as I’m officially converting and I want to explain it to my parents I am going to get a copy of Currie’s book for them to read - because I really think that regardless of whether they agree, that reading something like that will at least help them understand why I have decided I believe what the Catholic Church teaches.

I thoroughly enjoyed reading Catholicism for Dummies as a good very basic introduction to Catholicism, but I have also found many many great resources online, including the Catechism. Do you get EWTN in your area? if not (or even if you do) also check out their great archive of past shows online, that has also been a big help for me.

Welcome to this great journey towards the truth of the real Church!

(also - for your information - I’ve started a blog chronicalling my own journey towards Catholicism - linked below - I don’t pretend that its anything great, but I probably will soon start posting links to great resources I find (and have found - I just started the blog yesterday so I have been trying to play catch up for covering the last few months)
 
Welcome to the board and to the journey of faith, ladylinguist! Others have recommended good reading material, so I thought I’d tackle how to explain your newfound faith to your Christian family and friends. Just be honest with them. Tell them what drew you to Catholicism and what it has meant to your relationship with Jesus and your spirituality. Let them know that your interest in the Catholic Church does not negate all you learned and experienced as a Christian but that you are building on it with what you have learned about the Catholic Church, because truly, that is what has happened, am I right? 😉
 
ladylinguist, welcome home! It is a little known fact in the Protestant denoms that you are baptized Catholic, this is why when people convert from a true Christian faith (one that believes in the the Trinity) you are not “re-baptized”. So, welcome home!

I am a cradle Catholic, but I was really moved by Karl Keating’s Fundamentalism verses Romanism or something like that, the book has been loaned out so I can not check the title. Anyway, the book goes through many misconceived ideas our Protestant brothers and sisters have on what we actually believe. I was not reading it for ammo to defend my faith, but to understand where my “born again” friends are coming from with their questions. What I had not planned on was this new love of my faith it has instilled in me!!!

Scott Hahn’s books are really good and full of a lot of energy. Inorder to really understand what I mean, you need to read his conversion story first then read his books. He is so excited anout the Catholic faith that it gets you excited. Scott is a very versed theologian and well respected in the Protestant faith with his knowledge of the Bible and ancient times. He also loves the book of Revelation which caused his conversion due to his search for answers his own faith could not give. I would recommend The Lamb’s Supper as the first Hahn book you read; this one seems to pull together his excitment and love of the Catholic faith. I was excited to read the book because it really explained something I took for granted in a new light. :o

Good Luck on your journey! The Holy Spirit will guide you if you let him. Pray and pray often for discernment on how to approach your family and friends. Know that for whatever reason you are feeling called this way, it can not be wrong. Jesus said even the gates of hell would not prevail agaisnt his church! Our Church was started by Christ and it has never changed it’s stance on matters of faith or morals since it’s conception. It was the ones who wanted to change things who left us because we would not bend with the wind. The Roman Catholic Church is stable in it’s doctrine and it can not be changed by a democratic vote because Christ is our King in his MONARCHY! (The Pope just keeps the seat warm until Jesus returns! 😉 )
 
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ladylinguist:
Hello all,
I’m currently a non-denominational Christian, but I have found myself increasingly drawn to Catholicism of late. I am looking for advice as to finding useful resources on the basics of Catholicism, and the details of possibly converting to Catholicism. Any suggestions are greatly welcome. Also, if anyone has advice on explaining my interest to those members of my family who are Christian, but believe that Catholics are misguided I’d really love to hear it.
Thanks! 🙂
In addition to the great books that have already been recommended above, I would make the rather obvious recommendation of checking out the resources on www.catholic.com. The tracts and “This Rock” magazine articles have lots of great information.

If you are at the point that you are ready to convert, or that you are at least very seriously considering it, then you should contact a Catholic parish near where you live, and ask about their RCIA program. RCIA is the Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults, and it is a program designed to educate and introduce people to Catholicism, to prepare them for receiving the sacraments and entering the church. Unfortunately, some parishes these days have rather poor RCIA programs, which present a rather watered-down version of the Catholic faith. Your best bet may be to post a request here asking if anyone can recommend a good parish in the area where you live. Otherwise, you could just try whatever parish is close to you, and supplement what you are learning in RCIA with the resources mentioned above, in case the RCIA program is less than perfect.

I hope this helps, and don’t forget to post here with any additional questions you may have. May God bless you and guide you on your journey!

Paul
 
If you have the capability to listen to MP3 audio, then download the series “Fundamentals of Catholicism” by Fr. Altier. This and tons more can be found at www.catholicaudio.us or can be directly accessed at the following address.

ftp://217.160.246.215/pub/audionet/Desert_Voice/DesertVoice_Fr_Robert_Altier/

The advice about books is very good but if you commute to works or prefer listening, there is a lot of good Catholic teaching available on audio.
 
Scott Hahn’s books are really good and full of a lot of energy. Inorder to really understand what I mean, you need to read his conversion story first then read his books.
Here’s a link to his conversion story:
chnetwork.org/scotthconv.htm

As mentioned before the Catechism of The Catholic Church is highly recommended:
scborromeo.org/ccc/ccc_toc.htm

Also EWTN (television and website) is a great source for knowledge of the Catholic faith.

I also recommend this website to help answer some of the questions regarding human sexuality:
pureloveclub.com/

Please feel free to ask any questions if you’re looking for information about a specific subject.
 
Thank you all for your suggestions! I really cannot wait to learn more about Catholicism and I know God will lead me in the right direction in my search. Another question I have is whether or not Catholicism has denominations in the same way that Protestantism has them or does it all fall under Roman Catholicism?
 
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ladylinguist:
Thank you all for your suggestions! I really cannot wait to learn more about Catholicism and I know God will lead me in the right direction in my search. Another question I have is whether or not Catholicism has denominations in the same way that Protestantism has them or does it all fall under Roman Catholicism?
You’re welcome! We will be praying for you, please pray for us, too.

The Catholic Church does not have denominations (which all believe different things) but it has rites in which Catholics from different parts of the world celebrate the liturgies of the Church in various ways but who all believe the same things. The Orthodox Church is very close to the Catholic Church in its beliefs, but it does not recognize the pope as the head of the universal Church. All other Christian bodies are Protestant ones.
 
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ladylinguist:
Hello all,
I’m currently a non-denominational Christian, but I have found myself increasingly drawn to Catholicism of late. I am looking for advice as to finding useful resources on the basics of Catholicism, and the details of possibly converting to Catholicism. Any suggestions are greatly welcome. Also, if anyone has advice on explaining my interest to those members of my family who are Christian, but believe that Catholics are misguided I’d really love to hear it.
Thanks! 🙂
Dave Armstrong’s site should keep you busy!
Biblical Evidence for Catholicism

and a shameless Benedictine plug :o , there may be something of interest!

Order of St Benedict
 
The Roman Catholic Church is stable in it’s doctrine and it can not be changed by a democratic vote because Christ is our King in his MONARCHY! (The Pope just keeps the seat warm until Jesus returns! 😉 )
I love this!! :clapping:

-ACEGC
 
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kp1:
l The Roman Catholic Church is stable in it’s doctrine and it can not be changed by a democratic vote because Christ is our King in his MONARCHY! (The Pope just keeps the seat warm until Jesus returns! 😉 )
815 What are these bonds of unity? Above all, charity "binds everything together in perfect harmony."265 But the unity of the pilgrim Church is also assured by visible bonds of communion:
  • profession of one faith received from the Apostles;
-common celebration of divine worship, especially of the sacraments;
  • apostolic succession through the sacrament of Holy Orders, maintaining the fraternal concord of God’s family.266
816 "The sole Church of Christ [is that] which our Savior, after his Resurrection, entrusted to Peter’s pastoral care, commissioning him and the other apostles to extend and rule it. . . . This Church, constituted and organized as a society in the present world, subsists in (subsistit in) the Catholic Church, which is governed by the successor of Peter and by the bishops in communion with him."267

scborromeo.org/ccc/p123a9p3.htm

You should be aware that some Latin Catholics can go a bit overboard on their description of the Pope’s role, note the use of Peter’s pastoral care…Peter and by the bishops. Terms like monarchy do not go down well with our Orthodox / Protestant brethern and since Vatican II a much more collegial approach has been in evidence (though some will say it hasn’t)

I think “Servant of the Servants of God” best sums up the role of the Pope.

You should also note the Church is the Catholic Church. The Roman Catholic Church is a rite within the Church, albeit far and away the largest one.

St B
 
Another question: Do Catholics actually pray to the saints or in the name of the saints? If they do pray to the saints, what is the biblical basis for that? As a Protestant, prayers are always directed only to God. In fact, most Protestant denominations I’ve ever been acquainted with don’t even mention the saints.
 
Ladylinguist:

Thanks for joining us!

Regarding your question on praying to saints. Catholics worship God. We worship and pray to God. But we also pray to the saints. There’s a distinction between the two. When I pray to St. Anthony when my wallet is missing, it’s like a friend asking another friend to assist in looking for it. This by no means equate to worship. Of course we ask Jesus for many many things. But making friends with the citizen of heaven (the saints) doesn’t take away from God. We are after all a family.

Hope this insight help.

in XT.
 
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St_Benedict:
You should be aware that some Latin Catholics can go a bit overboard on their description of the Pope’s role, note the use of Peter’s pastoral care…Peter and by the bishops. Terms like monarchy do not go down well with our Orthodox / Protestant brethern and since Vatican II a much more collegial approach has been in evidence (though some will say it hasn’t)

You should also note the Church is the Catholic Church. The Roman Catholic Church is a rite within the Church, albeit far and away the largest one.
St B
I am sorry that I seem to have offended you in my overly simplified title of the Pope. However some people get quite confused by our honor to the Pope as the Vicar of Christ. My term as seat warmer is very simple and I will admit it does not take his entire job under account.

The Pope heads the church till Christ returns at which point he gives the reins back to Christ. The Pope is the one we hold accountable to God to lead us, we believe throught the doctrine of Papal Infallablity that he will not be able to change the doctrines of our church in matters of faith or morals. I realise the college of Cardinals and the Bishops advise the Pope, but they are not the figure heads! They are not held to the same level of accountablility as the Pope.

The term Roman Catholic Church was not used for some time, but it was used to distinguish the difference between the Byzantine, also referred to as Orthodox or Eastern, Catholics and the rest of us. The Orthodox Catholics actually broke from the RC. Here is a link to read more on the split catholic.com/library/eastern_orthodoxy.asp. Thus the title of Roman Cathoilc Rite verses Orthodox or Eastrn Rite came about. Yes overall the two are so very similar, especially compared to our Protestant Siblings in Christ, but they are not in complete agreement with the RC thus still keeping the titles to separate the groups.

As for the democratic comment, well some of our faithful seem to think the church would benifit from some changes. They think they could put enough pressure on the Holy See to make these changes. Big News Here: They can no better change the church’s stance on matters of morals or faith than the Pope can!
If they feel they can no longer accept the teachings of Christ and the first apostles, I am sure they can find a new home in one of our Protestant groups who did change their doctrines to fit their wants. Look at the recent controvery with in our Lutheran Brothers and Sisters who were VOTING on weither or not to accept Gay Marriage. Christ said Even the gates of Hell will not prevail against my kingdom. Wow, I think he meant it was his kingdom, meaning Monarchy verses an Our which means democracy. Where in the Bible did Jesus “feel out” or ask Peter what he though about these rules? No, he just said this is what you need to do and this is God’s will. Jesus put Peter in charge “until his return” so someone would be accountable to making sure the “rules” now referred to as doctrines, were kept in tact.

So yes it was an over simplified statment on being the “seat warmer” but it was still well within the defined parameters of his job. I think Benedict would gladly step down if Christ himself came to him and said “Hey I am back! I think I will take over now! Thanks for keeping the seat warm!”

Try to find some humor in your day! God has a sense of humor or he would not have given us one! 😃

I understand we are suppose to be ecumenical, and I do believe in welcoming our Christian siblings in, but there are still some differences that make us Catholic. I read an article on Vatican II, you see I am post Vatican II (I have never been to Latin Mass!), the idea of becoming more ecumenical was to make it easier to bring our estranged Christian siblings back into the fold. It was never intended to “water down” our faith to be like the other Protestant Demons. We are still Catholic, we have some specific things that make us different from the Protestants and to deny that would be to pretend that our doctrines do not matter. SO it is a fine line on when are we ecumenical and when are we exclusive. This is why we say to be in the fullness of truth you need to follow the Vatican, we never said the other Protestant faiths were wrong, just not completely faithful to the origins of the church and God’s will as stated by Christ or the Holy Spirit through the Apostles.

I hope you understand I really am not trying to argue semantics here. I just felt you really did not find my comment the way it was intended.
 
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ladylinguist:
Another question: Do Catholics actually pray to the saints or in the name of the saints? If they do pray to the saints, what is the biblical basis for that? As a Protestant, prayers are always directed only to God. In fact, most Protestant denominations I’ve ever been acquainted with don’t even mention the saints.
Saints are people we believe are in Heaven with God. We ask Saints to help us and pray for us or more simply to put in a good word for us with God. The more people you have praying for you the better. As my mother so interestingly put it,“In Heaven the saints are not bothered by the necessities or distractions of our society, they have nothing better to do that to pray and watch over us!”

As for “in the name of” it is always in the name of Jesus or God or the holy Trinity. We ask Saints Like St Michael the Archangel to protect us and defend us because they are given these jobs by God. Michael was the angel who trew Lucifer and the other fallen angels out of Heaven by God’s will not his own. I personally call upon Micheal to help me fend of the demons and their temptations everyday. I do recognise that with out God’s will, Michael could do nothing for me.

Here is a link on the Catholic Encycopedia where St. Michael and other angels are defined in both doctrines and the Bible.

newadvent.org/cathen/10275b.htm

This website is great too for finding more information on the RC
 
A couple of other books that I recommend:

Catholic and Christian by Schreck: This book summarizes the basic beliefs of the Church.

Why Catholics do that: I don’t recall the author but I’ve given it as a gift to many converts and/or people in teh process of converting. This book gives a concise explanation of many of the practices and rituals practiced by Catholics and their historical genesis.

In both cases, they will give you additional questions that you can take to your Priest for clarification. You have a faith tradition that probably had teachings contrary and possibly in direct opposition to those taught by the Catholic Church. In order for you to fully complete your journey into full communion with the Church, it is helpful if you have full knowledge about how and why the Church’s teachings are different from your past faith tradition and the importance of those teachings.

It is my experience from observing converts that because they take so seriously the reconciliation of their past beliefs with those of the Church that they become the most devout and faithful of Catholics. Converts are a treasure that all us cradle Catholics value greatly. God Bless you on your journey.
 
Another question I have is whether or not Catholicism has denominations in the same way that Protestantism has them or does it all fall under Roman Catholicism?
There are not “denominations” but there are Eastern and Western Rite Catholic Churches:

ewtn.com/expert/answers/catholic_rites_and_churches.htm
newadvent.org/cathen/05230a.htm
vatican.va/holy_father/john_paul_ii/apost_letters/documents/hf_jp-ii_apl_02051995_orientale-lumen_en.html

Some of this might be confusing and I would appreciate if someone else on the forum can clarify it better than me. Basically try to think of it like this: People who live in the United States are all Americans yet those who live in different states may have slightly different laws and customs. So while we all follow the same constitution some of the things we do might be slightly different as a result of our heritage. For example, we all are required to have a license plate for our cars. However, what our license plate says indicates something about our state. So while we all are required to have license plates on our cars, they are also unique depending on our state heritage.

Some Eastern Churches (as far as I know) are still in a state of schism and aren’t in communion with Rome. Think of these Churches as a state that seceded from the United States (doesn’t recognize the President and let’s the mayors govern the state) but still follows the constitution of the United States.
Another question: Do Catholics actually pray to the saints or in the name of the saints? If they do pray to the saints, what is the biblical basis for that?
When we pray to the Saints we ask for their intercession with God. I recommend Luke 7 1:10. Now, the Centurion in that passage did not feel worthy to directly address Jesus. So instead he sent the elders of the Jews to Jesus on his behalf. Now, Jesus did not tell the elders of the Jews that the Centurion should ask Him himself; Christ granted their request and went to the Centurion’s house.

It should be noted that all grace comes from God Himself. Have you ever seen a picture of Mary standing on the moon? Now the moon itself casts no light; all of the light it gives off is reflected from the sun. When we pray to the Saints we are asking them for their intercession with God; the graces we receive from the Saints are directly from God. For example, if you hurt a friend and want to apologize to them but are uncomfortable doing so (fearing that you might make the situation worse), you might ask your best friend to go see the friend that you hurt and try to convince them that you are sorry. If your best friend comes back and tells you that your apology is accepted, your best friend isn’t the one forgiving you even though your are receiving the message of forgiviness from them.

Now, why pray to the Saints instead of going to God Himself? Well, imagine if you wanted to ask the President for a favor. Now, you could go to him directly and have it granted. However, wouldn’t it be smarter to go to his mother (whom he loves) and ask her to intercede on your behalf? Don’t you think he would be more likely to grant a favor when asked by his mother whom he loves and to a person who is friends with his mother?

I highly recommend the book “True Devotion To Mary” by St. Louis De Montfort:
ewtn.com/library/Montfort/TRUEDEVO.HTM

If you get a hard copy of the book try to get one not published by Tan books which translates “worship” instead of “venerate”.
 
The definition of the word prayer has changed. The historical meaning was different than the modern useage. The court system still uses the word differently since you can file a prayer or use the word pray as a petition to be heard or a request.

Therefore we do pray to saints, although we do not worship saints. We pray and venerate Mary although we do not worship her.

The word pray can mean a request or petition…“Please hear me!”
The word venerate means to hold in high honor. That is how we mean it when we honor Mary.

Also the word worship has evolved as well. It used to have a broader meaning and could be used in other circumstances between men or with a king or court judge. Even in these cases th worship to God our Father was above and distinctively different. Now when we use the word worship we generally reserve it to God alone.

Much confusion between Catholics and Protestants lies in different definitions and meanings of words. I hope this explanation helps.
 
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