Dumped by Girlfriend

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My girlfriend is catholic, but she decided to end out 9 month relationship since she does not agree with the Church about same sex “marriage”… and I do. Please pray for her conversion.
 
Ave Maria, Gratia Plena
Dominus Tecum.
Benedicta tu en mulierbus, et benedictus fructis ventris tui, Jesus.

Sancta Maria, Mater Dei,
Ora pro nobis peccatoribus
nunc, et en hora mortis nostrae. Amen.
 
How very painful for you,
to be ‘dumped’ by your girlfriend,
and to have a radical lack of agreement that causes pain to both.

Our dear Lord please give consolation and strength to ESMDHokie77 in this pain of loss and pain of anxiety for his former girlfriend.
Father, Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven, in the lives of ESMDHokie77 and his ex-girlfriend
 
Gracious and merciful Father, please come to their assistance.

Our Father, who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.
Thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on Earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.
Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.
Amen.

Glory Be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end.
Amen.
 
You should realise that each person is an individual,
With their own individual taste , preferences, opinion etc,
And each person has a right to that fact,
To break up a great Friendship because of a different opinion to yourself is not wise,
Simply because, if your Blessed to become married to someone,
There will be a multitude of things that you will disagree with,
And you couldn’t possibly want to marry the image of yourself,
Friendship / Partnership / Marraige is where we ourselves realise that Compromise
Is a Fundamental fact of life,
 
My girlfriend is catholic, but she decided to end out 9 month relationship since she does not agree with the Church about same sex “marriage”… and I do. Please pray for her conversion.
I am sorry for what happened to you.
 
Well, that was a close call. You must be thanking your guardian angel for looking out for you.
 
Sorry to hear that your girlfriend dumped you. Join the group of many of us for whom that has happened.
 
May our Lord Jesus Christ heal your pain.

Mary, Seat of Wisdom…pray for us!

May God’s Holy and Perfect Will be done.
 
Saint Michael, the archangel, defend us in battle, be our defense against the wickedness and snares of the devil, may God rebuke him, we humbly pray. And do you, O’ Prince of the Heavenly host, by the power of God thrust into Hell Satan and all the other evil spirits who prowl about the world for the ruin of souls.

Amen.

†

Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

†

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

†

For Help in Trials

Most holy apostle St. Jude, faithful servant and friend of Jesus, the name of the traitor who delivered your beloved Master into the hands of His enemies has caused you to be forgotten by many. But the Church honors and invokes you universally as the patron of hopeless cases–of things despaired of. Pray for me who feels so hopeless. Make use, I implore you, of that particular privilege accorded to you of bringing visible and speedy help where help is almost despaired of. Come to my assistance in this great need, that I may receive the consolations and succor of heaven in all my necessities, tribulations and sufferings, in particular ESMDHokie77, and that I may bless God with you and all the elect throughout eternity. I promise you, O Blessed St. Jude, to be ever mindful of this great favor, and I will never cease to honor you as my special and powerful patron, and to do all in my power to encourage devotion to you. Amen.

Prayer to Our Lady of Mental Peace

O Lady of Mental Peace,
Mother of Tranquility
and Mother of Hope,
look upon ESMDHokie77 in this time
of weakness and unrest.

Teach her searching heart
to know that God’s Love
for her is unchanging and
unchangeable, and, that
true human love can only
begin and grow by touching
His Love.

Let your gentle Peace -
which this world cannot give
  • be always with her.
    And, help her to bring this
    same Peace into the lives
    of others.
Our Lady of Mental Peace,
  • Pray for us!
    Amen.
Jesus, Help Me!

In every need let me come to You with humble trust,
saying:
Jesus, help me!
In all my doubts, perplexities, and temptations:
Jesus, help me!
In hours of loneliness, weariness and trials:
Jesus, help me!
In the failure of my plans and hopes, in disappointments,
troubles and sorrows:
Jesus, help me!
When others fail me, and Your Grace alone can assist me:
Jesus, help me!
When I throw myself on Your tender Love as Savior:
Jesus, help me!
When my heart is cast down by failure, at seeing no good
come from my efforts:
Jesus, help me!
When I feel impatient, and my cross irritates me:
Jesus, help me!
When I am ill, and my head and hands cannot work and
I am lonely:
Jesus, help me!

Always, always, in spite of weakness, falls and short-
comings of every kind:
Most Sacred Heart of Jesus, help me and never forsake me!

Amen

†
 
My girlfriend is catholic, but she decided to end out 9 month relationship since she does not agree with the Church about same sex “marriage”… and I do. …
In my long bachelorhood, I had been dumped by so many girls it was beginning to feel like a career.

One thing you should keep in mind is that you marry the one you date, not the one you do not date. Sounds obvious, but many couples start out dating for fun or convenience. Eventually it slips into marriage. This, I am convince, is why we have such a sorry success rate for marriage in the US. You are fortunate this disagreement surfaced before you two made a mistake.
 
You can pray that she comes to senses but look at the bright side of this
If she can dump you for this reason She does not worth you.

Relax there are a lot of good girls out there .
 
You should realise that each person is an individual,
With their own individual taste , preferences, opinion etc,
And each person has a right to that fact,
To break up a great Friendship because of a different opinion to yourself is not wise,
Simply because, if your Blessed to become married to someone,
There will be a multitude of things that you will disagree with,
And you couldn’t possibly want to marry the image of yourself,
Friendship / Partnership / Marraige is where we ourselves realise that Compromise
Is a Fundamental fact of life,
She dumped HIM, no the other way around. Sounds like he is wiling to help her work through it…He’s asking for prayers for her eyes to be opened to God’s law. He sounds very mature to me. I will pray.
 
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Our Father, Who art in heaven,
Hallowed be Thy Name.
Thy Kingdom come.
Thy Will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.

Amen. †

Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the Fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.

Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of death.

Amen. †

Saint Michael, the archangel, defend us in battle,
be our defense against the wickedness and snares
of the devil, may God rebuke him, we humbly pray.
And do you, O’ Prince of the Heavenly host, by the
power of God thrust into Hell Satan and all the other
evil spirits who prowl about the world for the ruin of souls.

Amen. †

St. Thérèse of Liseux Prayer From “Story of A Soul”

May today there be peace within.
May you trust God that you are exactly where you are meant to be.
May you not forget the infinite possibilities that are born of faith.
May you use those gifts that you have received,
and pass on the love that has been given to you.
May you be content knowing you are a child of God.
Let this presence settle into your bones,
and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise, and love.
It is there for each and every one of us.

Amen. †

Lord, thank you that you are with me right now.
Your love surpasses all fear.
I give you the anxiety I feel.
I surrender all my worries to you.
Clear my mind;
Calm my heart;
Still my Spirit;
Relax my being, that, I may
always glorify you in everything
I write, speak and do.

Amen. †

Jesus, Help Me

In every need let me come to Thee with humble trust, saying,
Jesus, help me!

In all my doubts, perplexities, and temptations,
Jesus, help me!

In hours of loneliness, weariness and trials,
Jesus, help me!

In the failure of my plans and hopes; in disappointments, troubles and sorrows,
Jesus, help me!

When my heart is cast down by failure, at seeing no good come from my efforts,
Jesus, help me!

When others fail me, and Thy grace alone can assist me,
Jesus, help me!

When I throw myself on Thy tender love as Father and Savior,
Jesus, help me!

When I feel impatient, and my cross irritates me,
Jesus, help me!

When sickness and loneliness overcome me,
Jesus, help me!

Always, in weakness, falls and shortcomings of every kind,
Jesus, help me and never forsake me.

Thank You, dear Lord Jesus.

Amen. †

:signofcross: :blessyou:
 
Whether dating or married, each must love God first, seek the best interests in the other, and above all else, lead each other to Christ, uphold the teachings of the Catholic Church, and guide our steps toward Heaven.
 
Saint Michael, the archangel, defend us in battle, be our defense against the wickedness and snares of the devil, may God rebuke him, we humbly pray. And do you, O’ Prince of the Heavenly host, by the power of God thrust into Hell Satan and all the other evil spirits who prowl about the world for the ruin of souls.

Amen.

†

Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

†

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

†
 
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