I guess what gets me here is that Dungeons and Dragons has to do with a fantasy world and things that obviously don’t exist. It has nothing to do with reality, it is, indeed, just a game. You are not any more a wizard than you are a robber if you are playing cops and robbers as a child.
What amazes me is that we spend so much time on assuming that if there are wizards and sorcerers in the game there must be some kind of mystical metatext that will slowly erode the will of our children when we can see, clearly, the work of Satan in our modern world. Our children are listening to hip hop music that glorifies sex, drugs, and materialism, and does so by promoting such things IN THE REAL WOLRD. Our children are so poorly catechised that they get more (wrong) information about the Roman Catholic Church from movies like The Order, Stigmata, and unfortunately the upcoming DaVinci Code than from teachers that worry about showing them the faith.
In a way, the reason I still play is that I can participate in story telling that still shows that good wins out over evil, and that heroes can still strive to make a difference. If D&D is wrong for using gods and magic, then using Allegory at all must be wrong. That, to me, seems to imply that all Christian art then must be firmly rooted in reality with no allusions what so ever to anything non-Christian. This doesn’t just eliminate things like Tolkien and C.S. Lewis (hey, just because Aslan was suppose to be Jesus, the fact is that you have magic, witches, and talking animals . . . none of that is in the Bible), but Shakespere, mythology, and a good deal of classical music as well, not to mention famous works of art.
Yes, some poeple can use role playing games to reinforce negative things in their lives. But people can use neutral tools to do many things of this nature in life. This is just one of them.