East & West: Different Perspectives On Celibacy

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As I have noted in other posts, I am a young man who has thought seriously about the latin-rite priesthood. Yet for some reason I just can’t get over the issue of mandatory celibacy. The issue has consumed me, and I have tried to convince myself why it is necessary but its becoming extremely difficult.

I have studied the issue and found that the latin church was heavily influenced by St. Thomas Aquinas, St. Augustine, St. Jerome, and St. Ambrose who believed that sexual relations made a man “impure” to imitate the sacrifice of the mass and be present on the altar. Thus, the gradual trend toward a celibate clergy and then a mandatory celibate clergy was created. This was eventually confirmed in 1139.

Meanwhile the east had a different perspective of celibcy. Yes, Celibacy was a higher state than marriage as defined by both Christ himself and St. Paul. However, celibacy was something to be freely chosen by the individual and not a pre-requisite to ordination. Celibacy was recognized as an extraordinary calling and something to be lived out in a monastic environment. Priests, with their families and even outside professions, were a part of the community and had not renounced the world to the extent of the monks and bishops. This view was supported by St. John Chrysostom, St. Gregory of Nazianzus, and St. Athanasius.

"Saint Athanasius the Great: “There are two ways in life. One is ordinary and worldly, that is marriage; the other one is angelic and a higher one, that is celibacy. If someone chooses the worldly way — marriage — he will not be censured, but he will not receive the same gifts. However, he will receive some of them, because he brings the thirty-fold fruit. But if one chooses a glorious way which is high above the world he will receive more wonderful gifts, though this way is more mournful and difficult than the first one: because he has brought a perfect and hundred-fold fruit.”

Saint Gregory the Theologian: “There are two possible ways in life — marriage and celibacy, and the latter is higher and more godlike, but it is more difficult and dangerous, and the former is lower, but more safe…” “Neither celibacy, nor marriage connect or disconnect us with God or with the world entirely, so that one could be worthy of abhorrence, and the other of unconditional praise. On the contrary, the mind must be a good governor both in marriage and in celibacy, and to create virtue in them like an artist in a certain material…” “Though marriage has an earthly origin and celibacy makes us brides to Christ the King, it happens, however, that celibacy throws us down to earth, and marriage brings us to Heaven. That is why, if one began to blame marriage and another one celibacy, both would be wrong…” “Virginal life is better, really better; but if it serves the world and the earth it is worse than marriage.”

My question is how come most latin catholics in the defense of mandatory celibate clergy, immediately state issues like “being married to the church,” or “what if they got divorced,” or “what if they get a sick call at 3am,” or “how will their family be supported,” when in reality the whole latin church basis for instituting celibacy has nothing to do with these reasons but rather was about recognizing the sexual act itself was unclean and made a man unfit to consecrate the eucharist?

Another issue with this is that most people who are in favor of allowing a married priesthood are radical catholic liberals who believe in womens ordination, artifical birth control, eliminating the tridentine mass, masturbation, no confession, pre-marital sex, divorce, homosexuality- all things contrary to God’s law. It seems like I am the only traditional catholic who believes that mandatory celibacy should be lifted. Furthermore, I bet I am one of the very few who enjoys the latin mass who also believes mandatory celibacy should be lifted.

Some catholics on CAF have said that a married priesthood would encourage young men to follow their fathers. What is wrong with that? Wasn’t St. Patrick’s grandfather a priest? How many popes following in their fathers footsteps who were also popes?

Some people have told me I am a hypocrite because I believe in all the latin church theology but I believe in the eastern church definition of the priesthood and celibacy. But the way I see it, I am just going back to remnants of the Latin Church before 1139. Thoughts?
 
Another issue with this is that most people who are in favor of allowing a married priesthood are radical catholic liberals who believe in womens ordination, artifical birth control, eliminating the tridentine mass, masturbation, no confession, pre-marital sex, divorce, homosexuality- all things contrary to God’s law.
I think this is the biggest pickle that stands in the way of allowing faithful married men from ordination. Look what “liberals” did to Vatican II! They took a perfectly orthodox and valid ecumenical council, quoted tidbits totally out of context, and tried to push through all sorts of “reforms”! The Vatican has to be careful to not appear to yield on these kind of issues, so as to not give free reign to misguided Catholics.

That being said I have sympathy for the idea of married clergy, as Saint Paul he wishes all could live a celibate life dedicated to, but considers a marriage a holy option to those who are tempted by sexual sin. In this day and age, with sexual sin so rampant, I can image it being especially tough on and faithful and obedient Priests. They especially need our prayers.

From this difficulty though arises perhaps the most difficult issue to overcome, the risk of alienating and disillusioning many older priests who dedicated there lives and made so many sacrifices over the years. How hard would it be for the seventy year old priest who struggled so long and hard to remain faithful, only for the church to up and let married men in? From what I’ve heard, this need for solidarity among priests past and present is among the most important reasons for maintaining the celibacy discipline.

In the end it is a hard issue, and all involved need our prayers.
 
I really don’t mean to sound harsh, but how many threads over the same root issue are going to be started in this forum?
 
I really don’t mean to sound harsh, but how many threads over the same root issue are going to be started in this forum?
My guess is that they will continue until the response that is being looked for appears.
 
My guess is that they will continue until the response that is being looked for appears.
No doubt. That was my guess too. The worst part is, since the desired response doesn’t exist, it looks like there’s only more of the same :yawn: in store. Oh joy. … Oy.
 
It seems like I am the only traditional catholic who believes that mandatory celibacy should be lifted. Furthermore, I bet I am one of the very few who enjoys the latin mass who also believes mandatory celibacy should be lifted.
You’re not alone, man. I too consider myself a traditional Catholic (a SSPX sympathizer, in fact) who also feels that, in an ideal world, the complete ban on married western priests would be lifted. However, as you and I are both aware, the priesthood is a sacrifice. Christ was celibate. The Apostles were presumably celibate. The Church, in her wisdom, grew to understand more profoundly the beauty of clerical celibacy and has, therefor, mandated it for all who would stand in the place of Christ. Its tough, but, hell, Catholicism is tough. Its why we’re not Episcopalians, you know?
 
As I have noted in other posts, I am a young man who has thought seriously about the latin-rite priesthood. Yet for some reason I just can’t get over the issue of mandatory celibacy. The issue has consumed me, and I have tried to convince myself why it is necessary but its becoming extremely difficult…
Read these please:

vatican.va/roman_curia/congregations/cclergy/documents/rc_con_cclergy_doc_01011993_chisto_en.html

vatican.va/roman_curia/congregations/cclergy/documents/rc_con_cclergy_doc_01011993_bfoun_en.html

vatican.va/roman_curia/congregations/cclergy/documents/rc_con_cclergy_doc_01011993_revel_en.html

Many on celibacy:
vatican.va/roman_curia/congregations/cclergy/index_en_giub_presb.htm
 
You’re not alone, man. I too consider myself a traditional Catholic (a SSPX sympathizer, in fact) who also feels that, in an ideal world, the complete ban on married western priests would be lifted. However, as you and I are both aware, the priesthood is a sacrifice. Christ was celibate. The Apostles were presumably celibate. The Church, in her wisdom, grew to understand more profoundly the beauty of clerical celibacy and has, therefor, mandated it for all who would stand in the place of Christ. Its tough, but, hell, Catholicism is tough. Its why we’re not Episcopalians, you know?
My personal hope on this is that if reunion between the RC and Orthodox churches DOES finally happen (May God allow it!!!) the unified church (both “lungs” working and everything) would greatly benefit from the Orthodox perspective of having the common-run-of-the-mill priests married but the Bishops required to be celibate.
MY opinion, of course.
 
No doubt. That was my guess too. The worst part is, since the desired response doesn’t exist, it looks like there’s only more of the same :yawn: in store. Oh joy. … Oy.
Hey look if you dont like my posts dont respond to them simple as that!
 
I really don’t mean to sound harsh, but how many threads over the same root issue are going to be started in this forum?
Really, you should know better than to ask that. There is an ancient rule against fortune telling by consulting the dead.
 
Dear brother Notredame,
My question is how come most latin catholics in the defense of mandatory celibate clergy, immediately state issues like “being married to the church,” or “what if they got divorced,” or “what if they get a sick call at 3am,” or “how will their family be supported,”
I don’t see anything disingenuous with these “issues.” They all seem to fall under St. Paul’s exhortation about worldly concerns vs. purely spiritual concerns in I Corinthians 7.
when in reality the whole latin church basis for instituting celibacy has nothing to do with these reasons but rather was about recognizing the sexual act itself was unclean and made a man unfit to consecrate the eucharist?
Not exactly. It was not just the Latin Church, but the Church Catholic, which recognized that priests must remain continent for a period before and after the Holy Oblation. This is reflected in canons from Carthage (5th century) and Trullo (7th century). It’s just that in the Latin Church it became the tradition to have Mass daily and then several times a day, whereas in the Eastern and Oriental Churches, DL or Mass is celebrated much less frequently. I think it was more a practical decision than one borne out of a fear or condemnation of the sexual act.🤷

If I’ve read your OP correctly, you don’t seem to have a problem with celibacy itself, but with the idea that it is mandatory. Is that correct? I have a question for you. Are you married? Sorry to sound tough, but I don’t feel particularly sympathetic towards unmarried people who complain about this issue. If you are unmarried and feel called to the priesthood, the only reason I can think that this issue would concern you is if you want to get married after you become a priest. I can tell you right now that unless you are a Protestant, such a thing will not happen in any of the apostolic churches, West, East or Orient.

If you are married, have you thought of the diaconate? The diaconate is conventionally regarded as a stepping-stone to the priesthood in the Eastern and Oriental Churches, not as an end in and of itself as in the Latin Church. If the Latin Church ever renews the old tradition of a married priesthood (instead of permitting dispensations in special circumstances), you’d already be more than half-way there.

Blessings,
Marduk

P.S. Your response to brother Malphono was rather defensive — unmerited, IMO.😊
 
P.S. Your response to brother Malphono was rather defensive — unmerited, IMO.😊
The reason that these topics keep popping up is because old threads are 5+, 10+ pages long, and impossible to follow or contribute to once established. They all have these kind of sub-conversations that ratchet up the angry post icon, which make them no fun to read.

I for one thought his was going to be an interesting topic, but sadly its been derailed by people who don’ “want to sound harsh”. As the OP said, if you don’t want to participate because the topic is old news to you, don’t. Don’t derail it for us who are new enough to have not read the old posts!

Now I’m sorry to sound harsh (irony intended :p). That’s my rant for the day. Truly sorry if I upset anyone 😦
 
The reason that these topics keep popping up is because old threads are 5+, 10+ pages long, and impossible to follow or contribute to once established. They all have these kind of sub-conversations that ratchet up the angry post icon, which make them no fun to read.

I for one thought his was going to be an interesting topic, but sadly its been derailed by people who don’ “want to sound harsh”. As the OP said, if you don’t want to participate because the topic is old news to you, don’t. Don’t derail it for us who are new enough to have not read the old posts!

Now I’m sorry to sound harsh (irony intended :p). That’s my rant for the day. Truly sorry if I upset anyone 😦
It’s nothing to do with any “old threads” even though they certainly exist and are easily found. But how about current threads? Right now there are at least 4 in this forum (and at least one in another forum here).

You want to discuss it? Go for it. It’s beating a dead horse, but pick a thread: there are several to choose from, or choose them all and cross-post. In the end, the answer will still be the same.
 
It’s nothing to do with any “old threads” even though they certainly exist and are easily found. But how about current threads? Right now there are at least 4 in this forum (and at least one in another forum here).

You want to discuss it? Go for it. It’s beating a dead horse, but pick a thread: there are several to choose from, or choose them all and cross-post. In the end, the answer will still be the same.
whats so hard about not responding if you dont want to? This is my last thread relating to the topic, if that satisfies you. The issue of mandatory celibacy is not a minor thing, it contributed to the schism, and certainly something that divides western from eastern catholicism. Asking a young heterosexual man whos in his early 20’s who wants to get married, wants to have children, wants to have sex, to give it all up to be diocesan priest when he sees a history of a married priesthood in the latin church, TRADITIONAL married eastern catholic priests, as well as sexually active married anglican priests makes him wonder. Its a valid topic.
 
It is definately a valid topic for discussion. It’s ok if its discussed more than once! Don’t worry, the forum will not run out of space. Maybe this question is coming from a different angle or perspective. Even if its not, it’s ok to ask it again. There are many reasons.

One, for example, is me. I didn’t have this question at the forefront of my mind, so I didn’t bother searching for it. But when I saw it posted, I was curious and subscribed to the thread. The information in this discussion (and the others before it) would not have been brought to light unless this particular thread was started. I’m glad it was, because now I’m learning about something I didn’t think about learning about!

Let the questions be asked. Let them be answered. Let them be asked again, and answered again. Just let it be.
 
And now look what happened! The whole thread go derailed, and I’d argue that the OP has the right to post this question yet again. 🙂

In fact, OP, I’d suggest you do so in a day or two if you think an aspect of your question wasn’t considered or thouroghly answered. Good day to all!
 
It is definately a valid topic for discussion. It’s ok if its discussed more than once! Don’t worry, the forum will not run out of space. Maybe this question is coming from a different angle or perspective. Even if its not, it’s ok to ask it again. There are many reasons.

One, for example, is me. I didn’t have this question at the forefront of my mind, so I didn’t bother searching for it. But when I saw it posted, I was curious and subscribed to the thread. The information in this discussion (and the others before it) would not have been brought to light unless this particular thread was started. I’m glad it was, because now I’m learning about something I didn’t think about learning about!

Let the questions be asked. Let them be answered. Let them be asked again, and answered again. Just let it be.
Fine. Discuss the issue beyond its death. I care less.

All the discussion in this world and the next is not going to change the fact that wanting to be a “married priest” it is NOT a valid reason to transfer Churches.

As had been said by other posters umpteen times in various threads, in the case of a man who is already married and who expressed a sincere desire to transfer, (and for reasons which are judged to be valid in and of themselves), the transfer might well be granted. One would have to live as part of ones new Church sui juris for a while before raising the issue of priesthood. In other words, it would not happen overnight. Or within a year. Or within 2 years. It would be a good number of years before to the possibility of priestly ordination would even be considered.

The process of transferring Churches is not something to be undertaken just because someone is heterosexual and wants marriage and ordination. That reason does not cut the mustard. If someone having that primary motivation wants to try to hoodwink both bishops and not fess-up to his motivation, it’s 98% sure it will come out in the wash anyway and the transfer will be denied. But even if the performance were an Oscar winner and it were to fall in the 2% category, the petitioner would have to live with the fact that he lied to both bishops. That might be an even worse fate.
 
Fine. Discuss the issue beyond its death. I care less.

All the discussion in this world and the next is not going to change the fact that wanting to be a “married priest” it is NOT a valid reason to transfer Churches.

As had been said by other posters umpteen times in various threads, in the case of a man who is already married and who expressed a sincere desire to transfer, (and for reasons which are judged to be valid in and of themselves), the transfer might well be granted. One would have to live as part of ones new Church sui juris for a while before raising the issue of priesthood. In other words, it would not happen overnight. Or within a year. Or within 2 years. It would be a good number of years before to the possibility of priestly ordination would even be considered.

The process of transferring Churches is not something to be undertaken just because someone is heterosexual and wants marriage and ordination. That reason does not cut the mustard. If someone having that primary motivation wants to try to hoodwink both bishops and not fess-up to his motivation, it’s 98% sure it will come out in the wash anyway and the transfer will be denied. But even if the performance were an Oscar winner and it were to fall in the 2% category, the petitioner would have to live with the fact that he lied to both bishops. That might be an even worse fate.
I agree. I don’t think there’s any good reason to leave the church.
 
We are not speaking of leaving the Church. We are talking about changing sui juris Catholic Churches.
Well, actually, I don’t think we are talking about switching or leaving any church. The OP was noting the differences between the different Catholic churches, questioning if its proper, and asking if he is the only one that thinks it may not be.

I might have misread something though! Wouldn’t be the first time. 🙂
 
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