Next time, giggle like you know something they don’t.
I know it sounds funny, but I am totally serious. Way Serious.
Exctact yourself from the conversation as politely as you can, like Miss Manners would, In the midst of the gaggle, say something like, “I hope you have a nice morning/afternon/evening.” With a pleasant smile like the cat who just ate the bird…and leave gently.
*All my life, as a Catholic in the Bible Following that she went on about it and another two people piped in on it, and then the anti-Catholic stuff started and I am embarassed

to say, that I just grabbed my buggy and walked away because I had no come back I really did not know how to repond, That is why I am here asking you all what do I say *
Dear Kim,
Just a note of support from a transplanted Yankee that you did well in your Easter conversation. Thi issue has been on my mind since I read it and posted a few days ago. Pelase let me add a few more words.
Some people here believe the roots are pagan, others do not. I see that argument as besides the point of your original question. [Not the point of celebrating Easter,or debating the roots of Easter, but the point of the conversation that Kim3260 had,ok?)]
but when Christians do this, I am at a loss.
The point is Christians attacked - not questioned - but attacked your belief system as if you were…someone who needed to be taught a lesson. They weren’t trying to evangelize, they were trying to convince you that they were right.
And…(HUZZAH TO YOU!) they did nothing in the process to question your faith. Instead, you came to CAF/CAL looking for answers. Thank God for people like you who come looking for ansers tather than abandoning Catholicism altogether because your “faith” was challenged. Your solid grounding in the faith amazes me, and I am happy to have met you on these boards.
Next time you get into a situation like that, open a thread and PM me so I know you’ve started a thread. I would love to give my two cents worth. Until then, my advice is to still “act like a lady.” Smile courteously and extract yourself as best you can while wishing them a good day. Let
them talk about Easter being pagan or not amongst themselves. You know the truth in your heart, and do not need to respond to them.
You mentioned that you were
embarrassed that you didn’t have an immediate answer. Look, we’re not all apologists who can answer from Sacred Scripture or the CCC from the hip. (What were you
supposed to do, tell them to wait a minute, run home and print something by Jimmy Akin or Karl Keating and bring it back to them?)
So take it easy on yourself.
Obviously, they do not attend Mass with you, but are these people you have over to tea? Do they bring you a casserole when a family member has passed on? Do they watch your children or walk your dog while you run to the grocery store? Are they your friends in the truest sense?
Christ said that [paraphrasing here]: “There will be those who are hated in my name.” You just got that firsthand and passed with flying colors. Offer it up for [specificlly them] our separated bretheren and let it go.
God bless you with all my heart,
Rose