Easter Vigil Confirmation names

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We just had our RCIA retreat this past Saturday. While there, we got to announce our confirmation names. Some of the names chosen in my class were Theresa (or Teresa), Anthony, Michael, Mary of Egypt, and Thomas More. What name did you choose??

No big surprise, but I chose Our Lady’s name. :cool:
 
I’ve chosen St. Therese, but I really want two so I can have Mary Therese (to also honor Our Lady). I asked on the forums here and all the responses I got seemed to think that it was fine to have 2 confirmation names, but when I asked in my RCIA class they said they didn’t think you could have two:( . But they are checking since it may be ok sine St. Therese’s name was Maria Therese. Maybe I can take two, but if not, I’m still deciding between Mary or Therese. 🙂
 
I’ve chosen St. Therese, but I really want two so I can have Mary Therese (to also honor Our Lady). I asked on the forums here and all the responses I got seemed to think that it was fine to have 2 confirmation names, but when I asked in my RCIA class they said they didn’t think you could have two:( . But they are checking since it may be ok sine St. Therese’s name was Maria Therese. Maybe I can take two, but if not, I’m still deciding between Mary or Therese. 🙂
I was very surprised nobody else chose to honor Our Lady by taking her name. There are a lot of ladies in our class, and I was sure that many other ladies would choose Mary! My friend chose Mary of Egypt, which she said “Mary” could serve as a double devotion, but with Mary of Egypt being her primary…

I was shocked…especially since I am a guy and definitely wanted to honor the Blessed Mother!
 
I was shocked…especially since I am a guy and definitely wanted to honor the Blessed Mother!
That is shocking. I admire your for choosing Our Lady. There is nothing wrong with a guy wanting that name! But I don’t think many in our class are choosing Our Lady either. I think several in our class are actually choosing their own baptismal names. Our team said that as long as their name was from a Saint or some variation they could do that.

Me, this was going to be new start so I wanted a “new name” 🙂

Its becoming a really tough decision to decide between Mary and Therese if I can’t have both. Its going to take a lot of praying and I may not have decided until Saturday! But I know that the answer will come to me!
 
We just had our RCIA retreat this past Saturday. While there, we got to announce our confirmation names. Some of the names chosen in my class were Theresa (or Teresa), Anthony, Michael, Mary of Egypt, and Thomas More. What name did you choose??

No big surprise, but I chose Our Lady’s name. :cool:
So did I. Now, if only I could find a cheap and easy way to legaly change my name to Harry Mary Andruschak…😦
 
I got Peter (after St. Peter the Apostle). I didn’t choose it - everyone was chosen it - but I had an unbarred option of changing it. As a result, I get to think of the name I got instead of thinking what name to pick. 😉 I used to think I was more of a St. Paul personality, but later I started to identify with the name more and more.

Mary can be chosen by men, sure. I don’t know about other female names, but I’ve heard somewhere that male names were allowed to women.
 
I got Peter (after St. Peter the Apostle). I didn’t choose it - everyone was chosen it - but I had an unbarred option of changing it. As a result, I get to think of the name I got instead of thinking what name to pick. 😉 I used to think I was more of a St. Paul personality, but later I started to identify with the name more and more.
That’s not a bad idea - we should implement something like that in our RCIA.

There was a Bishop here I guess many, many years ago who also did the same thing with the Confirmation candidates - they were all either John (for boys) or Mary (for girls), unless they had a strong preference for something else.

This ensured that everyone received a new name at Confirmation; not just those who were aware of the need.

It also made it really easy for him to remember all of the children’s names during the ceremony itself … 👍
 
I chose Pascal Baylon. Now if I could only find a medal of him! My local Catholic shop is trying to find me one, but no luck so far. Oh well, there are worst things.

(He’s patron of chefs btw)
 
we prepare a life of each baptismal saint for every candidate and catechumen, with a picture if we can find one, and they use it to make a shrine or picture to hang on the wall, or to make a prayer card. We have a file of these we have compiled over the years and can find just about every name. One confirmation candidate has the name of a notorious Greek god who is NOT a good Christian mentor, and he is choosing a new name, that of an archangel.
 
I wanted Katherine Drexel and she was canonized by JPII just in time (October 2000) because I was confirmed Easter vigil 2001. I found out after I chose her and showed a video to my mother and aunt that they had been educated by the Sisters of the Blessed Sacrament which is the order founded by this saint. Very cool.

My other saint name that I almost chose is St. Michael the Archangel who was my patron saint for law enforcement and whom I still love.

Our RCIA has trouble getting people to do the research in advance and make a choice, so they have started telling the class that all of the men will be Mary and the women Joseph unless they do the research and pick a name. It usually gets everyone’s attention.
 
My parish tells adults that it isn’t necessary or even standard “any more” to take a new name. Of course, I will anyway.
 
I was very surprised nobody else chose to honor Our Lady by taking her name. There are a lot of ladies in our class, and I was sure that many other ladies would choose Mary! My friend chose Mary of Egypt, which she said “Mary” could serve as a double devotion, but with Mary of Egypt being her primary…

I was shocked…especially since I am a guy and definitely wanted to honor the Blessed Mother!
My (real) name is a derivative of Mary, so in my case it wasn’t necessary. My confirmation name will be Margaret, after St Margaret of Cortona.
 
That’s not a bad idea - we should implement something like that in our RCIA.
It may be at variance with the official rules, though. The freedom to choose the patron is not to be restricted, according to my information. 😉
 
My parish tells adults that it isn’t necessary or even standard “any more” to take a new name. Of course, I will anyway.
Good for you!! And please also encourage your classmates to do the same, if there is still time - although I know at our parish, the names had to be in early last week in order to be recorded in the parish records.
 
My parish tells adults that it isn’t necessary or even standard “any more” to take a new name. Of course, I will anyway.
they didn’t tell you the whole story, then, the reason for new names orginally was to add a saint name if the individual had a pagan name from birth. The emphasis now is on learning more about one’s baptismal saint and name, just as it is on encouraging the baptismal godparents to be the confirmation sponsors. The theology behind it is emphasizing the intimate link between baptism and confirmation. Certainly adding a new saint name is a worthy practice, but not necessary.
 
they didn’t tell you the whole story, then, the reason for new names orginally was to add a saint name if the individual had a pagan name from birth. The emphasis now is on learning more about one’s baptismal saint and name, just as it is on encouraging the baptismal godparents to be the confirmation sponsors. The theology behind it is emphasizing the intimate link between baptism and confirmation. Certainly adding a new saint name is a worthy practice, but not necessary.
What a lot of “cradle” Catholics miss is that no Protestant has ever been given a “baptismal Saint’s name” at Baptism. Usually, we are named after relatives (first born girl named after her maternal grandmother or aunt, second girl named after paternal grandmother or aunt, etc.).

Any connection to a Saint at a Protestant Baptism is purely coincidental. That’s why I think it’s so important to encourage both the baptized and the unbaptized to take Saint’s names at Confirmation - including those who have the outward appearance of being named after a Saint, so that they can have a consciousness of Saintly intercession in their lives.
 
As a matter of fact…yes…I am quite serious about it. Just not sure what is needed in terms of time and money.
I don’t know what they do in the USA, but in Canada, you would get an application form at your nearest Registry office - the same place that we get birth certificates, Social Insurance cards, health cards, driver’s licenses, car license plates, marriage licenses, etc.

Just a tip; you might want to use whatever the name is that “Harry” stands for (one is assuming “Harold” but one doesn’t like to guess at these things), since “Harry Mary” sounds very weird. “Harold Mary” sounds much more cool, though. 😉
 
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