Oh good, no hard feelings then.
Well, I used to be an Arminian Protestant, and shortly after becoming Roman Catholic, I changed to being a Thomist. But now I am not so sure what I believe. While I see God’s grace at the very beginning of any “system,” free will needs to be reckoned. So, given that the Western Church is most definitely Thomist-oriented (read 600 in the CCC), I wonder how the Eastern Catholic Churches reconcile this with their traditionally Orthodox free will approach to Divine Election. From what you’ve said though, it sounds as if there is no need to reconcile these two different approaches to Divine Election, and that as long as the Eastern Churches maintain that we are elected because of God’s gift of grace, everything is fine.